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[–]801735 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

About what?!?!

[–]sadbasturd99 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

they will end up most likely end up in failing marriages or get cheated on

I thought the same thing in High School. I never did drugs, never drank, had a moral compass.

The result: I am 42, unhealthy physically and mentally, and I am alone. The people I thought myself so superior too are healthy, wealthy, have beautiful wives, beautiful children, beautiful homes. One friend of mine did get cheated on but they somehow worked it all out. Who was the fool ?

[–]30SecondsFlat 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You need to take control and start working on your physical and mental well-being. Are you sleeping at least eight hours per night? Exercising? Eating healthy? Seeing a therapist? Things like this will help you feel better.

A woman will not cure your loneliness. If anything she'll make it worse. There are many people here who have been married and said they felt most alone when lying in bed next to their wife. And you don't know what goes on behind closed doors. A lot of people and families tightly control their public image and on the surface everything looks great. If you knew what was going on beyond that surface you'd see that they actually have a lot of problems too.

Don't try to compare yourself to others. Just try to do the best you can and keep going in the right direction and that's all that matters.

[–]DocHolliday226 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

So, those guys with the beautiful wives, beautiful children, beautiful house... Do you think they're happy, deep down inside? Do you think that beautiful wife hasn't brow beaten him into a simpering shell of a man with a honey-do list a mile long? Do you think those beautiful children aren't used as a weapon to keep him in his place? Or alternatively, do you not think those beautiful children live in the world of facebook and instagram and their vapidity is only surmounted by his ever growing disappointment in their lack of character? Do you think that beautiful house doesn't have him drowning in debt and requires him to work 80 hours a week just to pay the mortgage? Do you think he doesn't hate the color of the living room, but it's the color his wife wanted?

If you haven't done anything in your life worthy of pride, then that's on you. If you don't have any ambitions beyond getting through the next day, then I pity you. You act like you were cheated out of the chance to find happiness, and I say to you look inside yourself for happiness. No one controls your future but you. If you're too weak willed to do something wonderful with your life, then that's on you. Stop pining for the greener grass over the hill and make your own hillside better.

If you honestly believe that your life is poorer because you didn't do drugs, get drunk, and be morally bankrupt, then I don't know what to tell you. I think it's foolish to wallow in self-pity and pine after what other people have, but you do what you want. Rather than elaborate further on why you're an idiot, I'm gonna go and enjoy my life with its ups and downs, because I know that I'm in control of my life and I can do anything I set my mind to.

[–]Marque01 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Why are you unhealthy if you avoided drinking and drugs? Was it Pizza and Pop?