Orgasm is reward for passing life, its not reward for fucking. Sex without procreation is more or less hobby, leisure activity not really more amazing than diving in coral reef or biking in mountains. Its pleasant but there are many pleasant things. Truth is sex without procreation doesnt matter, creating new life, new human is , busting into condom no. In year 1984 Orwell wrote sex and pornography are tools of control over masses. I must agree there is no better way to distract young men than pussy. Simple human pleasure was turned into status thing. Sex is sold to men as something which will make them happy. Ultimate happiness. But its not how hapiness works. You make yourself happy in many many ways that dont require you to sell your kidney or soul. For example exercise on fresh air is suprisingly effective in creating happpiness. And its free and it doesnt bother or nag you. The moment you stop obsessing about boring entitled creatures called women whole world of happiness opens for you, books, sports, computer games ... in fact ... you may end up more happy than people in relationships who must listen to blabbering of the female. No female is more interesting than really good book.

If you remove sex, women is not pleasure but obstacle to pleasure. Instead having fun you must 'spend time together'. I see it often , I exercise, I see men listen to blabbering, I read books, I see men listen to blabbering, I surf, I see men listen to blaberrin. For fuck sake, its a prison. These dudes are not able to leave female alone because it would make them angry and lock down holy vagina and this how they get robbed of life.

Real reason for dry sex in relationships is because men are turned into girlfriends instead of being men.