There's no difference. I've paid for two escort services with the same women in one month which were my first experiences. I decided that it'd be much cheaper than a girlfriend or marriage. But I still feel robbed at £130 an hour and think to myself that I've wasted good money that could have gone on something better. I didn't enjoy the sex either- I had lost my virginity so nerves may have payed a part but with a condom on it felt bland, boring and touching breasts, butt or other parts of her body didn't feel like how my hormones had led me to believe! Anyway, my attitude is that masturbating is just as good as what a woman can give you. That might be different if no condom but I'm not stupid enough to take that risk for oral or vaginal sex. My suggestion is give it all up. Get yourself a decent fleshlight. Maintain it well and it'll be much cheaper than paying for those women, hooker, stripper or 'normal' or whatever. Sex technology will only get better. Sex robots are getting developed, VR sex is just around the corner and VR porn is already here! Save your money and be a MGTOW not just for relationships, but for sexual transactions with women as well! That's my choice at least. All this best!