Stop thinking about it so much.

Put activities on the same playing field.

Like "Do I want to cook a crazy good dinner right now?" or "Do I want to have sex right now?" in the same light.

They are just actions that can give pleasure. Stop fantasizing the future with a woman, it is a very easy and natural thing to want to embrace and run with.

You usually like the idea of being with a person more than the reality of actually being with that person. If you have fun with her then great go have fun, just don't be under any delusions while you are there.

If you feel ANY sort of jealously at all when you see her reach out to another guy or vaguely suggest she is going for another ride on the CC you know you are heading down a negative path mentally. Do not try to fight these feelings head on, move them aside, keep bringing yourself back to baseline. Intrusive thoughts are natural, normal and a good indicator of being able to see into the future.

Focus on yourself and what makes you happy, the second the scales tip into not having fun land change it up.

It is easier when you are talking to more women at once, rest assured they are all doing that. Have prospects but don't shed any self worth or value just to get at that box.

You are probably getting stuck in a negative feedback loop mentally, thinking about all the what if's. One step at a time and go to the rhythm of your own beat. If its convenient to go out with her do so and even have some fun with it. Test different inputs.

You were fine before this person came into your life and you will be fine when they leave, be that constant.