Over the years, I've noticed more men (geeks, charismatic, popular, dweebs, etc) focused on self and self happiness, rather than on women.
By that I mean these guys enjoy their own money and not pay to be with a female on a "date," hoping she would fulfill some void in the man's life. These fellas buy gadgets, phones, take trips, invest, move in to their own homes, drive nice cars, and purchase stylish watches and clothes.
It's a new day that I've always wished to see: even the most naive guy is finally realizing what makes him happy because he's earned it. Just as important, he doesn't fall for the shaming tactics that women and society try to apply to a man's life of not "growing up" because of personal interests like video games, hobbies that don't involve skirt chasing, or anything else he pursues.
Side note: one step at a time. I'm fully aware of some guys still wearing the capes, but we have a slight improvement.
ここには何もないようです