I got banned from relationships for commenting on a post about a woman who's husband said he was no longer attracted to her. She admitted to being overweight and not dressing nice. I got banned for making this comment:

http://imgur.com/a/OhecL

"If you don't want to change, then he might leave you or divorce you. Instead of looking at it as "WHY SHOULD I HAVE TO DO ANYTHING", try to look at it more as "What Can I do to make my relationship stronger and my husband happy?" You're willing to waste time and money on therapy but not go to the gym? That just sounds lazy to me. Is doing something like working out and dressing better THAT much of an affront to you? If it is, then you have deeper issues. Ask him to work out with you and go shopping together I BET he will jump at the chance. You're trying to make this a you vs him issue when it can be a together issue where you both win."