Once again, I'm writing on this sub Reddit to express my thoughts and gain insight from others.

As Mgtow, we do not adhere to any strict rules or guidelines; if any, the main premise is to not marry/cohabit/ minimize interaction with women, and a result, enjoy freedom. There is no dichotomy (women/ no women), but rather a spectrum.

In my head, the mgtow spectrum ranges from absolute monk mode (little no unnecessary interactions with women) all the way to the bachelor who will use game and gets laid, but ends up pumping and dumping or going ghost (Danny phantom reference, lol).

There is no best place to be on the spectrum because it is your decision, ultimately. If one decides to go Lvl 99 monk and swear off women, that's cool. If you wanna mess around with women, cool. Wherever you lie on the spectrum is a personal choice.

This tends to be one of the biggest debates in this forum, but there is literally no need for debate. Arguing personal lifestyles is pointless. It's absolutely fine to discuss and describe your sentiments, but it is infeasible to try "convert" to your style of going your way. We all kind of agree that women aren't necessary to live a valued and meaningful life, but we will never agree as to what degrees of women are needed in our life ( just like folks at r/theredpill will never agree how many times a day you should "lift and hold frame, bro")

This is not a movement, as many others have noted dozens of times. We agree on basic tenets (going our own way), but that "way" or "route" isn't outlined for you in google maps. We discuss our experiences and theories here, but there is no "best" route.