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Women destroyed me. (self.MGTOW)

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A fucking narcissistic psychopathic hoe, destroyed my life because I loved her. Even though I do not give a crap about her anymore, and I'm a mgtow, the depression that the heart break caused me, is still fucking here. I do not give a crap about "relationships" or women or fucking, I just wanna be not depressed. I'm still not able to think/feel as before, and I'm in constant pain and spend my day sleeping. This fucking bitch caused me brain damage, what should I do? My hole fucking existence turned into crap.

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[–]Chrollo-Lucilfer 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (0子コメント)

First of all you are saved. Don't think like that she destroyed your life. She just use you and throw you away. Learn the lessons from your mistakes and don't repeat them. They say some will come in your life and you will find love all again those saying are bullshit. Everyone knows a broken glass can't be fixes no matter what you do, you can still see the cracks. Relationships are also like that your are now just a broken glass that smash in to pieces. Don't cry over or occupying your mind thinking about over spilled milk. Gather your pieces glue them and live your life. Do things that you like and don't think about others.

[–]phreshstart 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I've been there and it sucks. All I can say is that it takes time to heal and you have to take baby steps to improve your life. Give yourself a break for now, keep sleeping(it helps the mind to heal and to cope with reality) and do whatever you feel like. When you start to feel better look into things you enjoy doing. I like cooking because I can take control of what I put in my body. A healthy body is essential for a healthy mind.

You can also reverse that brain damage you're talking about trough meditation. This is what worked for me, your journey might be different. You have to rediscover yourself, without that life sucking bitch attached to you. That's what going your own way means.

[–]calories_for_closers 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

How long has it been, friend?

Sometimes recovery can take as long as 25-50% of the relationship length. So if you dated 12 months, that would be 3 months to fully get over it and resolve your emotions. It takes time man, hang tight.

[–]fruguy [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Agree. It took me 2+ years to get over a 6-year LTR. I mean, I got over the worst if it in a few months, but I didn't really feel over it for at least 2 years.

[–]ThePenitentMan38 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I found that exercise improves my mood. Take it slowly and in small steps, but be persistent. Do it every day and make no excuse to skip. Use this book as a guide:

Adult Physical Fitness

[–]soullessgeth 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

i find drinking until i can't think or feel feelings works when things get really bad. just don't overdo it friend

[–]mofono 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Try to find meaning in life. You have let go of her and she is behind you now. Forget about her.

I suggest you go on YouTube and watch "the red pill grief cycle" and also watch videos by Messenger Rising.

Good luck.

[–]saggsy 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hey man, you're in a bad place right now, and you know what? That's ok. You've reached out for help, and that's the first step to getting back to being you. No one can tell you what will work for you, as everyone is different. For me, I found a therapist who I get on with. I read Eckhart Tolle and found out what was really going on inside my head. It's been 15 months since I last tried suicide and for me now the world is a beautiful playground. It was hard work because I'm worth it. So are you.

Feel free to pm me anytime.

[–]pawsahf 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

"This too shall pass"

Survival is the only game at the end of the day everything else is insignificant bullshit. Keep on keeping on, if you need more sleep atm no problemo, your body will tell you, listen closely.