I see a lot of topics on offmychest complaining about being ugly too, and quite frankly I don't get it.

yes, people give you nasty looks. yes, people laugh at you in your face and behind your back. you think people are nice to everyone else? they might not attack their looks, but there's so much else to be picked on for, and trust me, it does get picked on! how else do you think I know how this goes? I'm not unattractive, but I'm ambiguously gendered in looks and voice. whispers, stares, glares, people coming up to me and trying to make me talk, then getting pissy when I won't (like I'm going to give the time of day to someone acting aggressively). people loudly talking about THE GAYS and pausing for dramatic effect while glaring in my direction to make sure I noticed, then freaking out and running away when I do (will never understand that one).

so you get bullied. stop acting like your life is over. it's not.

everyone has something in common. everyone knows when they click and when they don't. be good at conversation, be sly and silver-tongued, and you will get dates no matter what it is you look like. obviously you're still going to get rejected a lot (just like everybody else). but don't act like you'll never find a warm hole until the day you die, because at that point your desperation and self-hate makes your life a self-fulfilling prophecy, and only aggressive professional therapy can save you from yourself.

No one will magically fall into your path

I don't know why you think this is some great injustice. this is how the world works. period. end of story. no ifs ands buts or ors, that's just how it goes.

Elliot rodger went on his spree because he "couldn't get" women. he would do shit like go to a park or club with lots of people, sit down on a chair or bench, and wait for women to come to him. of course they all ran off with either opportunistic men they were drunk enough to think was amazing or men they had invited there for the purpose of sleeping with again because they had previously established an emotional connection with them. and poor widdle Elliot hated them all for it because he assumed it was purely because those guys warmed benches more attractively than he did.

Elliot rodger was not unattractive. go ahead, google him. fucker looked great. but he was an incel, because he sat and waited with his mouth open for that silver spoon to come along and lost his shit when it never did.

if you want something from the world, you need to do everything yourself and know when and when not to quit. no one is being any more unfair to you than they are to anyone else. even bullies bully other people too.