So in my last post, I detailed how I would give dating another shot. I built up basic rapport with a woman online. Who said, not once but twice she would be interested in meeting for coffee.

On Thursday (It's now Friday) I told her I was free Friday or Saturday. We had some things in common, so at this stage I was kind of expecting her to reply with "Saturday sounds good". You know a normal fucking response.

Instead I haven't heard from her since yesterday. Which is not only typical fucking AWALT, it's just bloody rude and unreliable. Right?

So instead, I will treat myself to an erotic nuru massage. Sad but true.

EDIT: What I would like to add is this.

Now so far it's been 50/50 back and forth. Now because she seems to be ghosting, I have to say a younger me would have now started pushing her more with messages like "Heh still there?" or "So looks like this weekend won't happen?" etc.

No, no, no. Now I say nothing. If she ever does raise her head again, still a younger me would just pick up where we left off. No, again - It shows her you have no problem being treated like some 2nd class citizen.

Still a younger me would have ignored and moved on already.

But I'm thinking if she ever does come back up for air, I'll really ask her "What happened to you?" and "Oh ok I was kind of looking forward to our meeting" etc.... Make her aware that that behavior isn't correct, in a way that doesn't involve "Go fuck yourself". But at this stage if I'm in any way shape or form not satisfied with her answer, that's when to do a bit of ghosting myself.