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Why Should I Get Married (self.TheBluePill)

wilk24 が 投稿

There's some things I disagree with TRP on, mostly stuff treating others badly. I think everyone should treat others how they want to be treated. But something that deathly scares me is marriage now after reading a bunch of posts. Whats the point of getting married. It seems like the higher earner is always at a risk. If I do get married how can I prevent an awful divorce situation? Find someone that earns a high income as well and get a prenup? Seems like there will always be a tiny risk that can end up costing you a lot

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[–]Gunlord5002alfalfa4me 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Find someone that earns a high income as well and get a prenup?

That's often a safer bet; indeed there are a few examples of guys who have received alimony and done very well for themselves--Kevin Federline comes to mind. But in general, I agree with you, marriage isn't what it used to be--and a lot of BPers feel the same, actually, male or female. Plenty of us here don't plan on getting married for a variety of reasons (not interested in relationships, tax penalties for marriage where we live, etc. etc. etc.).

The difference between us and MGTOWs/TRPers is that we don't blame one gender for "ruining" marriage, nor do we spend much time shitting on people who actually are married. "Different strokes for different folks" is not an aphorism red-pillers often live by.

[–]wilk24[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's unfortunate :(, I wish there was a better solution. Yea blaming the other gender is not right

[–]Razed812Mad Chad Beyond Thundercock 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Marry someone you love and who loves you back? It's not so difficult. If not, marry someone who earns more than you.

[–]wilk24[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Things can change. It's happened before

[–]11bbpw 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (4子コメント)

No one gives a fuck if you get married or not. That's a life decision you get to make.

If you'd like actual legal advice on the possible consequences of said decision, I'd suggest you sit down with competent counsel. Plunk down the fee and pay for an hour of his/ her time. They'll let you know/ the issues that come with marriage/ children/ joint property, etc.

Or, trust the internet flying monkey brigade.

[–]wilk24[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Ok? But I'm sure a lot of other people have the same concerns. Yea I will probably get actual legal advice in a couple of yrs when time gets closer

[–]11bbpw 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'm one of those scary lawyers who does (when I can stand it) family law. We don't actually 'divorce rape' you. Instead, we actually sorta have to follow those laws regarding the 'best interest of the child' and 'child support guidelines.' If you're a few years from getting legal advice on marriage, you're a lot of years from actually making money that would matter in alimony.

In the meantime, just try to be a decent person and find a partner you'd like to grow old together. Think about details if you decide you both want to make a life together.

Or, trust the bitter dudes on RP who don't mention their orders of protection, failures to pay child support, etc. They can just blame that the gynocentric laws and just go game other bitches.

[–]wilk24[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I've thought about that and I would be totally fine for the best interest of the child. I would just hate to raise a child(children) under divorced situation and would hope to avoid that

[–]11bbpw 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I enlisted to try to die gloriously on the field of battle with some awesome Army death benefits. Maybe do that if you knock your wife up?

[–]KillACopTodayCelestial Outrage Machine 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

It seems like the higher earner is always at a risk.

So just marry someone richer than you.

If I do get married how can I prevent an awful divorce situation?

Don't be an awful person.

Seems like there will always be a tiny risk that can end up costing you a lot

You ain't ever going to get anywhere in life if you can't stand the idea of tiny risks

[–]wilk24[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not being awful is easy but finding someone richer is harder to do. This tiny risk can ruin your whole life I don't think it's something to tread lightly

[–]Countess_LingulaPrescribing cavemanolol to block your betas 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Read the sidebar, dude -------->

And then ask yourself if you think we care.

[–]wilk24[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I wanted the blue pills prospective on this, I think it's a reasonable question

[–]HolidayDoggos♪ "Fuck Me, Ray Bradbury"♬ 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Why do you want to get married? I mean, what's the conflict here?

You're going to encounter some resistance because these posts often end up sounding like "Why should I let your 'side' take me to the dance" when this side could not care less, if you see what I mean.

There probably are pro-marriage forums you could bounce off, but this isn't really one of them.

If you feel that skeptical about marriage it's likely not for you at all in any event.

[–]wilk24[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

So no one here wants to get married? I thought I would get more insight here since I really do want to get married but have doubts

I guess that's true. I was curious on TBP's opinion

[–]HolidayDoggos♪ "Fuck Me, Ray Bradbury"♬ 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Even if people here want to get married, it's a pretty personal decision. I doubt you're gonna find people who want to proselytize for it or try to convince you. If marriage is probably not suitable for you, who cares?

¯_(ツ)_/¯

[–]day_kid_older_sister7/25 on the Undateable Bingo 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Is your picker that broken? I think marriage to someone disordered is a bad idea, but if you're really objective and stop spackling over major foundation cracks in their character you should be okay.

I know my picker is broken. I'm fixing it before i think about marriage