You can open a thread to ask this question. You can also open a thread to start and discuss bettering yourself or sharing your progress so far. I've seen threads about men going their own way and enjoying life, making good money, buying a house, buying a car, or just dodging bullets after break up and go MGTOW. Those are great stories I like to hear and you can be the one to contribute as well. If you can't see these threads, why not start from yourself first?

But starting this thread makes it sound like you are entitled to what you want, "I want these threads, where are they!". A community is about contributing and sharing, if you can't find what you want, start by yourself and spark conversations. Or you can go to other subreddits to find what you want.