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Should I redpill my boss? (self.askMRP)

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My boss is a sound guy. Alpha as fuck at work. He's very well respected, revered almost by some people, and we've developed a solid working relationship where we look out for each other .

But at home, for him, it's a different story. He's been in a deadbedroom situation for years, and has openly confessed to me that it's hurting him. I hate seeing the guy like this, and I know that MRP is still niche enough that someone of his age is not going to just stumble across it.

What would you do?

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[–]herpy_McDerpster 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Red knighting is potentially dangerous, especially when it's where you make your money.

That said, if you're relatively certain he'd respond positively to it (not just that it'd help him live a better life) and don't mind the risk, it might bring you guys closer and be good for your journey as well.

Full disclosure: I've talked to the guys about RP, two of which reacted positively and made moves in their lives. The third and I don't talk anymore because I'm apparently a "misogynistic abuser" of my (now much happier) wife.

[–]8lack5wan 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If it was me, I would recommend a book from the sidebar to him (like MMSLP). Then later during casual conversation about the book, I would mention that I found it from reading r/MRP.

I have a friend who is in a deadbedroom situation and when I referred him to MRP, he blew it off completely because he didn't believe in that "red pill stuff". If I introduced him to a book first, he might have given the material a chance before writing it off. But of course you can only show him the door...

[–]2ndal 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You could anonymously send him a link to something like this.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

mention it

You got an old friend that is killing it @ work and was sick of the shit @ home, he found MRP and found a balance to kill it @ home

the end

I did the same for a friend fucker is working out 2x a day and lost like 40 pounds is home a lot more

[–]Manonamission2221 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Be very careful. Most people are not as ready as they may appear. I have been doing MRP successfully for the past 2 years lurked for a 18 months before that. I have only talked to 2 people about this and been approached by 2 others. All are under way unplugging but it was different and difficult for each of them. I am very cautious about fight club and you should be too. In all cases I lead with no more mr nice guy follows by rational male and then the side bar. Lifting is a must. If you cannot commit to lift you cannot ever unplug. I know, I pussyfooted around for a year lurking before I was able to commit and get to the gym.

[–]LymanRP 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Don't mention it directly. As others have stated, lend him a copy of the Rational Male, or Athol's MMSLP. Don't push further than that unless he's reaches out.

[–]98fxstc 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Along the anonymous link route, maybe just leave a copy of NMMNG on his desk with a post it note that says Married Red Pill - Reddit. Sure he's gonna know it was you. But when and if, he ever confronts you about it just fog the shit out of him! If he's done the reading he will see right through you. If not he will be clueless like the rest of the world!

[–]rocknrollchuck 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

My boss is divorced and was talking about how difficult women were out in the dating world, and how his success with closing wasn't where he wanted it to be. I shared a couple articles with him that I copied into Word (so he wouldn't be biased by the source of the info) and he responded quite positively. We had a few more conversations, and I told him about MRP, and I also told him that I had an entire library of books that could help him. He looked through them and said "Hey, can you share those with me?"

He's been reading nonstop every chance he gets for the last few months now, and has thanked me several times for sharing them with him. He said everything is making sense now, and he can see the principles in play when he dates women (they react so predictably once you know the real deal). But he was ready for it. If your boss is as cool as you say, he just might be worth the risk.