So I posted a couple months ago introducing myself and my story. The jist of it is Ive seen my father go through 2 marriages and few bad girlfriends which is where I saw most of my awalt experiences that brought me to be mgtow, coupled with a few horrendous girlfriends of my own.

Anyway he is soon to be engaged for the 3rd time and has asked me to be the Best Man. Now I love my father, he has always been there when my mom and stepmom fucked us over.

Im sure I will be giving a speech and will be gone for a week or more with them in the Philippines (where she is from 😐) I haven't met her in person, I only hear them talk on the phone and ive exchanged a few words over facetime with her and I don't trust it, mainly because he has had 2 failed marriages and one was with another filipino. They are known for being extremely money greedy and generally bitchy.

I guess my real question is should I just suck it up go with it? I guess I dont really have a choice, I want to support him but Im so hesitatant to even be fully invested in it. Thats why I never talk to her or acknowledge her much, I feel like she wont be around long. Maybe im being hard to test her out. He 60 and I guess really doesn't wanna die alone, Im his only son and she has 2 kids. He has seen her 2 or 3 times in person and they have been talking for maybe a year or 2 now. In my eyes no where near long enough to know what kind of person she is.

Ive just been having an inner battle for the past few months on wanting to support my father because I love him but also hesitatant cause of the reason I will be supporting him. I just dont know what to think or do.