Ok so I've known a guy at the gym for about a year. He's mid 40's, good looking, fit and seems to have everything going for him. Haven't seen him for 3 months and asked him where he,s been. He tells me he's split with his wife of nine years because she has been cheating on him. I wouldnt think it would happen to a guy like this. This reinforces why I am here. Women are all the same. They don't care about us, they care about themselves. I remind myself why I do this all the time and funny enough negativity helps in this case.