These are notes I took from the book several years ago. I never read a book twice, and if a book is worth reading, it's worth taking notes on. Perhaps someone will find them useful. Please excuse the fucked up formatting. I don't feel like combing though the entire thing.
What women want
Q. Beyond herself and her status with other women, does anything else pique her interest?
A. Yes, any combination of money, romance, and excitement. The scent of these accommodations will have her rising like a cobra in a wicker basket. The provider of such diversions occupies center stage in her life, but his identity is unimportant to her, and it’s a temporary position. Nobody can amuse her forever. All pied pipers eventually fade into the past.
The end game
When you begin to fraternize with a woman, you are taking the first steps in a ritual mating dance that, if allowed to progress, will result in your moving about the floor in a semi-comatose state until you are fleeced of your money, property, and peace of mind. A predatory female will study you. She learns to know what you are thinking. She begins the strongest primeval death grip known to man.
Beta males are essential to the system
…the matriarchal system could never operate efficiently without the hordes of male drones it has created. These men, preconditioned by their mothers and suffering from a self-imposed order of chivalry, consistently front for the system and its predatory female masters.
Invisible men
Q. Who is the invisible man?
A. Any man the predatory female has deemed to be of no further use. Although she’ll go to extremes pleasing and cultivating a man when she’s in the acquisitive mode, she views him as untouchable once his purpose is served. He totally ceases to exist in every way. He becomes a nonperson and is fair game for the carrion birds of society.
Natural parasites
A primary trait of the predatory female is that she deprives you of your peace of mind in direct proportion to the amount of time you spend with her. It is a natural sapping process from which there is no escape. Starting with your mind, it soon extends to your money and possessions. It’s heads she wins, tails you lose.
Rigged game
A man, dealing with a predatory female, is like a man in the water with a shark. The environment (the matriarchal society) belongs to the predator. A man needs luck or special training to survive. Conditions permitting, a shark isn’t satisfied with just one chunk of the victim . . . it keeps coming back for more.
Slot machine rule
Q. What is the slot machine rule?
A. An extension of the principle that there is no such thing as a free lunch, the slot machine rule states that dealing with a woman on a personal level is like playing with a slot machine. It’s fun to watch, to play with, and it gives rewards. But the odds are against you. The longer you play the same machine, the more it will cost. It will periodically pay off in small amounts, teasers, but you will invariably end up in the red.
Q. And a date is like feeding in the first quarter?
A. Yes, and you might hit a jackpot. But sooner or later the slot takes it all back with interest.
Q. What if you just quit?
A. Before you are even out of sight, the machine is being cranked by another sucker. Indeed, he was probably cranking surreptitiously before your departure.
Hard to win
If an individual fails to understand that a female’s charms are never given, only loaned, he is doomed to exploitation. The male must constantly remember that there is absolutely no such entity as an exclusive use of a woman’s sexual favors. There are always other men, and sometimes women. The man’s innate desire to possess a female, to have his own little sex doll and intimate companion, is his biggest vulnerability. A predatory female will use this weakness to lead him into a trap and destroy him.
Sexual slavery
In the advanced stages of sexual hypnosis, the male may subconsciously want to crawl into the vagina and live there. Most normal, healthy men are capable of becoming total slaves to a well orchestrated sexual enticement and the predatory female is acutely aware of this. If necessary, she will stretch that vulva right over his head and smother him to get what she wants.
The ultimatum
Q. My girl friend says our relationship hasn’t “progressed” and if I don’t let her move in, she wants to break up.
A. Undoubtedly, but keep in mind . . . they all dump you sooner or later anyway. Your only elective is choosing how far the camel’s head will be into the tent when you are dumped. Have you considered minimizing your losses? This female is marketing her wares and you are reluctant to put up any front money. Why not opt for a new vendor?
Alimony
Many divorced men are sending monthly alimony checks to women bearing little resemblance, physically or mentally, to the ones they married.
Marriage simulator
Q. Is it possible to sample real marriage without the hideous commitment?
A. Fortunately, yes. Simply purchase a five hundred pound Bengal tiger and keep it in the back yard. Support it, feed it, and mount it. See for yourself if you are cut out for married life.
Only single men can be heroes
How would Superman, The Lone Ranger, James Bond, or even Jesus Christ have come off as a married man? The answer is: terrible. Married men are hard to sell as heroes. A picture of James Bond trying to placate a shrieking wife while she threatens to have his wages garnished doesn’t fit the hero image. A married man is a cornered man. He is a man who has lost something, and this makes it hard for him to be the classic, free thinking, and independent hero.
The law game
We’re a nation of litigants with the courts saying, in effect, “Ok Mr., go ahead and marry, but if she exercises the most famous of all women’s prerogatives—changing her mind—we’ll help her clean your clock. We’ll give her your home, children, retirement, and much of your pay check for years to come. You’ll even have to pay her attorney.”
Religious girls
Churches are crawling with predatory females masquerading as born again lilies of the field, but ravenously seeking willing, naive males. Those who bite on the biblical “lord and master” routine being peddled by churchgoing predatory females, being more deluded than most, will find (after the camel gets its head in the tent) their scrotum stretching twice as miserable.
The predatory female never loves a man; she only loves the love. This is a basic rule.
The Chameleon Syndrome
Q. What is the chameleon syndrome?
A. A quasi-supernatural transformation, the chameleon syndrome is the predatory female's unholy ability to become whatever the script calls for in "hooking" a man. She will adopt his viewpoints, his attitudes, his hobbies, and his dislikes. Her personality will change to suit his. She will enroll in classes, become a gour- met cook, stop smoking, switch religions, ac- cept his friends, humor his jealousies, develop a relationship with his relatives, or whatever else is called for. She will change colors in the rocks like a chameleon! Of all the traits exhib- ited by predatory females, this chameleon syndrome is one of the most lethal.
Q. Why?
A. Because, amazingly, the predatory female is completely sincere about her new behavior. She isn't consciously aware of any deception.
Young female horses exhibit many of the characteristics of the predatory female. If you charge wildly into the corral, she'll run away from you. If you ease into the corral, take your time, and bring something that interests her (like food), she'll become curious and wander up to sniff you out. Sudden movements will spook her. She will cost you a lot of money. She is dangerous and can hurt you. She is beautiful, unpredictable, and fun to watch. She needs constant attention. She will get into trouble if ignored. In groups, they quickly establish a pecking order since they basically don't like each other. If you let her have her own way, she'll run all over you. If she doesn't respect you, she's useless. She is capable of foundering (eating herself to death). She will often behave irrationally and can do you both great injury. Marrying her would be a huge mistake.
The Stinger
Q. Is there a single, dominant force used by predatory females to hypnotize and control males?
A. It is a combination of her appearance, personality, charm, wit, compatibility, and sexual prowess. Narrowed down to one thing: raw sexual allurement. Pussy power will ultimately deal the knockout blow.
He Who Cares Least Wins
Q. How might one enjoy dating various
attractive females without incurring some of the nightmares you've described?
A. Keep in mind the basic rule that he who cares least wins.
Do not allow yourself to be- come emotionally attached to your dates and girlfriends, or some very unhappy days are in store for you. You may allow them to enjoy your body, your mind, and your money, but always deny them your soul.
Yes, one way or the other, she'll always hate you. If she can control you, she'll hate you for destroying her sense of security. If she can't control you, she'll hate you for that. The predatory female always wants what she can't have; Satan recognized this trait in the garden. But oddly, predatory females are of- ten honest, while they hate you, in a diabolical way.
Q. What if I hold my ground and refuse to marry my girlfriend, even though I'll always love her and tell her so?
A. She will shortly dump you and probably marry someone else, but she'll never forget you. Simply being "the one that got away" locks you forever into the romantic mold of her mind. She may stay with her husband, but will daydream about you. She couldn't maneuver you. You stood up for yourself, you won, you are the hero, and that's romantic. She'll always grudgingly admire you.
Men are generally unaware of the enormous and often vicious peer pressure that women put on each other to marry and have children. Predatory females aren't happy at simply be- ing married themselves; they want all their friends and relatives married, too. It's time to bow gracefully out of any arrangements you may have with a predatory female of this type.
Q. What are the five faces?
A. The ephemeral five faces of Eve are re- called by many who have experienced long relationships with predatory females. The first face appears at the introduction. Another one emerges while dating, and others present themselves while living together, marrying, and divorcing, respectively. Some- times the faces represent five different personalities. Many divorced men are sending monthly alimony checks to women bearing little resemblance, physically or mentally, to the ones they married.
Q. When is the grovel appropriate?
A. Hardly ever, and only if you don't care about the outcome. Groveling, especially an abject grovel, only drives the female away. If she senses you are doing it for fun, she may become curious, but it isn't likely to change anything.
This is the best way to get rid of a woman; men who beg are pathetic and repulsive to women. It’s trait that they cannot bear to see in a man. If you have cheated, deny forever, never ever ever ever admit guilt if you want to keep her. If you’re caught red handed, do not beg for forgiveness if you wish to keep her in your (sex) life.
"Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing; a confusion of the real and the ideal never goes unpunished."
—Goethe
Q. Once having "hooked" a man into marriage, the predatory female is bored?
A. Exactly. If the cat catches the mouse, it ruins the game. Marriage is the death blow to whatever vestiges of dignity and charm the man has for her. At best, like a gelding in the corral with a brood mare, he is tolerated as long as he behaves.
One of the most curious but poignant characteristics of the predatory female, it stems from the fact that a woman is primarily designed for reproducing the species. Her instincts are hinged to this reproductive urge. A major necessity is security. Graphically, when the female is helpless in labor and hiding in the bushes, she needs a strong male warrior to protect her and the forthcoming baby from attack or molestation.
She will prod him. She will nag and jab at him to see if he will stand his ground and put her in place. If he fails to assert himself, she will feel insecure. This will provoke even more at- tempts to make him take charge. She wants the security that goes with her own submis- sion. If she doesn't get it, she'll become a screeching fishwife in her primal clutching for security. She must ever be reassured that the nest will be defended.
A married man is a cornered man. He is a man who has lost something, and this makes it hard for him to be the classic, free thinking, and independent hero.
Go to any pawn shop and look at all the used wedding rings for sale.
Decide if you really want to be a guest in your own home.
Look at the mother of your prospective bride. This could be your wife in about twenty years.
Ask yourself, "Do I want to get her permission to spend my money? Do I want her to have a large claim against my retirement?
Do I want to sleep with and wake-up next to this old woman?'*
Seek a neutral, disinterested individual and try to explain to him what YOU are gaining from marriage.
Have your attorney lecture you for half an hour on the legal obligations and drawbacks of marriage. Consider his fee a bargain.
Don't even give marriage the remotest consideration unless you are willing to accept: • Being a guest in your own home.
• Losing your pension
• Living with the constant threat of alimony • Paying $75.00 for a bar of soap shaped like
a frog
• Knowing that between fifty and ninety cents of every dollar you make legally belongs to your wife
• Waking put went five years from now with
a creature that shares few if any interests
with you—but controls your estate
• Knowing that your children can be taken from you at any time and used to legally ex- tort money from you that far exceeds their support costs
• Being just another member of the vast army of subservient worker-drones in the matriarchal society
• Supporting a large cast of doctors and lawyers
• Having someone else decide how you are going to spend your money, your vacations, and your energy
The facial expressions of the newlyweds constitute the marriage afterglow. On the female, it is a quiet, contented, and privately triumphant look. On the new husband, it is an expression found on infants who have just crapped in their pants. He sits stupidly in an oozing euphoria, grinning from ear to ear, subconsciously knowing he's just made a seri- ous error, but not really understanding it. He somehow suspects that now HIS clothes go on the wire hangers and HERS belong on the wooden ones.
Regardless of how submissive she is, her legal position is still far superior to his, and if push should ever come to shove, she has the hammer. The marriage finally suc- ceeds or fails on the whim of the wife. Thanks to over seventy years of female emancipation, she is in the catbird seat, period.
A woman doesn't have to physically leave you to dump you. Millions of wives don't give a damn about their husbands, but are happy to spend his money and enjoy, what is for them, the prestige and benefits of marriage. Indeed, predatory females are skilled at taking your money, your time, your peace of mind, and then despising you, all in a con tinuous cycle that may run for years.
Another basic rule states that the length of the marriage is inversely proportional to the cost of the wedding.
a basic rule about ex-wives: No kindness from you will ever go unpunished.
Extreme Danger Signals
Any of the following signals could indicate a predatory female that should be considered an immediate threat.
• She is careless about birth control.
• She has a brass rivet in her nose.
• The picture on her driver's license is not
her.
• She wants to look at baby clothes when
you're shopping together.
• She calls you by your full given name.
• Her mother is a judge.
• Her medicine cabinet looks like a
pharmacy.
• She has several cats.
• She takes sides with waiters and clerks if you protest the bill or service.
• She receives payments from an ex, but is suing for more.
• When with her, you have the feeling of being followed.
• She practices writing her signature using your last name.
You awaken in the middle of the night to find her staring at you.
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