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Hi. Need help. Redpill ruined my mindset. (self.MGTOW)

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Recovering young MGTOW here. 19 years old.

I used to read a lot of TRP. Bookmarked everything I can and also religiously followed sites like rooshv, rok and heartiste. Now I'm currently trying to unlearn most of the stuff I have learned there.

I'm fucking sick of it. It put too much toxic waste into my system and ruined my mindset. I can't help but genuinely hate women. Yea, it did get me lots of pussy with "game" and "alpha mindset" but it didn't take me long to realize that I am worse than a bluepill beta. I loved the female validation. I wanted to "game" every chick I find and fuck her like the whore she is.

As I started meeting more chicks, I realized that not all women are sluts who fuck dozens of men and get wasted all night. Not all women are crazy psychopaths who are hell bent on cheating with your friends and dumping you for the next hot guy they find(hypergamy). Some women are interesting too.

Please keep in mind that I am not saying that women are unicorns or something like that. All I wanted is to change my perspective of looking at women ie., to look women as they are instead of either 1) unicorns - bp mindset or 2) whores- rp mindset. Both are extremely toxic. I need to develop a neutral and emotionless perspective of looking at them(help!).

My goal is to understand women but at the same time enjoy being around the interesting ones. I don't want to look at women as a object to be "gamed" and at the same time I don't want to treat them like they're princesses. This is where I need help. I need to develop a cold, emotionless perspective.

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[–]coqui25 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Emotionless perspective? I don't think that exists. Face it you are a human being. We got emotions.

Its like saying you have to be objective, but in reality there is no such thing.

[–]tribalbandit 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You are who you are. You are not being truthful with yourself right now. Why do you want to treat them however it is you want to, and what is telling you to do so is foolish? If you will look at this honestly you will learn much about yourself, something no one here can help you with.

You are not cold and emotionless because that is not who you are. Why do you think not being those things stops you from doing things you need to do? I urge you to be yourself and figure out how that fits into what you need to do, not try to be someone you are not.

[–]Rhodesius -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Just think of them as animals. Usually their character is based on their upbringing but in the end they are all cut from the same cloth. If you spend time around them you will develop either positive or negative feelings. It's not worth hating women, it's like hating a spoiled child. It's not their fault they're like that.

[–]secant128 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Keep in mind that the "interesting ones" you mentioned can be "interesting" in one moment but turned into toxic whores the next moment. And sometimes it's not like they have a problem, but when faced with the court and the government, it's better off for them to rip you apart using the gynocentric system. Even the greatest "interesting ones" you know when tempted and seduced by the system, will fall and become a basic AWALT. It's like game theory, when it's beneficial to be the "interesting ones", they be the "interesting ones", when it's better off as AWALT, then they become AWALT. It's not a constant bear in mind.

[–]sadpandathrowaway76 [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Take a break. You sound like you are still obsessed a little. Yeah you were a regular obsessed teenager that wanted pussy and worshiped them, then you got some RP dope and pussy became mundane for you but you still were going after that now you kinda hate that but still looking for a way to "talk to them". You are young.. there might be a great idea if you take a break from female side of society in terms of socializing for a bit and focus on something different that is important in your life.. maybe school or a career or a skill of some sort.. I have given this example before but maybe join a boxing gym and just hang out with men for a while. Observe people and try not to look at society like RP told you but just made your own observations. Over time you are gonna develop your own "image" of the world and that is what humanity call wisdom, gain it.. its free and worth a lot.