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If you continue fapping... (self.NoFap)

Neveratpeace が 投稿

You won't recognize yourself anymore.You will lose the red in your cheeks, the fire in your eyes and the smug, confident smile you once had as a child.

If you continue fapping, you will watch as your friends, who, though not talented as you, but more disciplined, are now going to Stanford while you watch soap operas with your family.You will see them get girlfriends, meet new people, go out to have fun, all the while your social circle dwindles and the people you thought were your friends become strangers.

If you continue fapping you will stop smiling at strangers, you will be more negative, people won't respond enthusiastically to you and won't wish to associate with you.At most they will want to keep it professional.

If you continue tapping you will desecrate your energy and immune system, and the slightest walk in the winter will get you I'll and stuck in bed.You will tire from walking uphill easily and won't have the strength to workout.Your body will lose muscle and you will become a shell of your former self.Everyone you know will notice the dark circles around your eyes.

If you continue fapping your IQ will drop 20 points in just 4 years.You won't be the witty guy anymore, with the response to everything.

If you continue fapping, you won't be as present to life.You won't enjoy simple things like sunsets and landscapes you once thought were beautiful.You won't see any meaning to your life and suicidal thoughts will poison your mind, until you find yourself shaking in fear and uncertainty, debating whether to end it here and now, this eternal struggle called living.

If you continue fapping you will lash out at your parents for no reason, saying things you know you will regret when they are gone.You will hate him for trying to make you into a man, refusing all advice.You will find yourself being cursing at God, asking why he gave you this pointless, sorrowful life.

If you continue fapping, you won't recognize the man in the mirror anymore, and although you might not recognize him, you will surely hate him, because you know he, and only he, was responsible for your downfall.

But, if you stop fapping....The world will be yours

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[–]stringerbbell 73 ポイント74 ポイント  (13子コメント)

This isn't true for most people who aren't suffering a severe addiction. It's these writeups that cause a lot of people to quit.

[–]ChipMonk998 Days 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Most of us here are suffering severe addiction. That's why we're here, right?

[–]stringerbbell 22 ポイント23 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Like crippling addiction? No, most of us are here because we want to repurpose the time we'd spend watching porn with something more productive. Or they're trying to regain sensitivity and intimacy.

[–]MasRock310 [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I think most of us here didn't even realize we had an addiction till we found this sub and tried to quit hundreds of times but failed miserable. So even though not crippling I'm pretty sure most our addiction are debilitating and more severe than we think

[–]GurrGurrMeister51 Days 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not severe

[–]edytimbaland46 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It had been around for almost 8 years, at varying degrees of intensity (from once every couple of days to 6 times a day) and it took me several weeks of attempts to quit to realise how addicted I was, before that, I thought it was normal! It is much more natural for us to build up our sexual energy over long periods of time. Not only does it improve your life in a fuck ton of ways (pun intended) and your effect on others in your life, but when you do get lucky it'll feel better. I reckon I was one or two years away from PIED. Maybe less

[–]sircomeseyesd [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Just some self improvement

[–]TheSelfieMonkey10 Days 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Exactly what I was thinking.

[–]Churraso430 Days 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Can you explain further?

I do not have a severe addiction, but if they quit because they face the truth it not because of someone else's fault, that's what weak people who are too scared to face reality do, they play victim and find someone to blame.

That said, their situation is not something I envy, and it's really sad, but if what they want is pity, that's not going to help.

[–]oziz_PA 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I mean I didn't like this post, it fell into classic Bro-Science, but I don't see how causes "a lot of people to quit". What, people are just going to drop everything cause they read a poor/inaccurate writeup like this?

I get the impression you mean is that people who just drop in this sub after hearing about the "cult" saw this and decided to discredit absolutely everything about the movement. I doubt these folks every really planned on taking it seriously in the first place though, as daily PMO is accepted and encouraged in society. Don't plan on losing sleep over that.

Regardless, I prefer the forums for this reason.

[–]dathomelessdog11 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

A post that shows you the truth about a PMO addiction causes you to quit? I know I can relate to this post 100% and it just motivates me more.

[–]Kyber_Skittles 35 ポイント36 ポイント  (3子コメント)

This is amazing. Thank you for this

[–]Neveratpeace[S] 13 ポイント14 ポイント  (0子コメント)

My pleasure to help someone in the same journey

[–]myAnonAcc0000000002 Days 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I agree. I'm only a few days in and so many things from this hit me square in the face. I'm going to come back to this every time I start to struggle.

[–]hurter1128 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You got this man!

[–]positronik 44 ポイント45 ポイント  (7子コメント)

Holy shit. I cannot believe this is as upvoted as it is. Yes, some people have an issue with porn and/or masturbation addiction. For anyone else, hell no. All you are doing is making people feel bad for not being in Ivy league schools, spreading false shit about IQ(which isn't important), and so many other things it's actually hard to address. Just because you can't get into an ivy league school or even a good school has nothing to do with your jerking off habits unless they literally affect your day to day life in a negative way. Not everyone is meant for college, let alone Stanford.

Yes, if you are masturbating 5+ times a day and can only get off through porn and not through actual sex, please get help! Either work on it yourself or talk to a therapist about it. If jerking off actually inhibits you from being a better person like alcohol or other drugs do, then yes, get help.

Otherwise, no. Please, don't blame the fact that you aren't as smart as others, aren't in ivy league schools, aren't happy, aren't good with people, or any other number of things on just jerking off. IQ is a pointless scale, and what really matters in life is hard work. If you are having trouble with hard work, motivation, and happiness then please talk to a therapist.

This post is poisonous and hurtful. Don't take it to heart. Please, there are other ways to fix yourself and other things to focus on. Only focus on this if sexual addiction is a serious part of your life.

[–]jeydi01 [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Everything about other peoples post is on their personal standpoint. You take what you can take, you leave what you can't. It's just a matter of common sense for me. You have to think sometimes bruhh.

[–]apoetindisguise1 Day -4 ポイント-3 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Maybe, instead of writing up a novel criticizing the post and the poster, you should read all the posts from guys who this totally resonated with. Case in point: this might not seem at all legit to you but it's all very real for far too many of us.

[–]positronik 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Did you read what I said? Because I totally understand how porn and masturbation can be a serious addiction and ruin lives. On top of that there are literally no studies that show that masturbation/porn addiction lower your IQ. All the original poster is doing is making people feel like shit or validating people who feel like shit and promising them that no PMO will cure everything.

[–]Jacob_wallace0 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Actually, considering the vast majority of the population faps, it's safe to say this post is complete bullshit. Just because other delusional people agree doesn't make it right.

[–]wildmans0 Days -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Dude.. do u even nofap?

[–]DigitallyWandering 25 ポイント26 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Can attest to this. Recently stopped, and so far for a few weeks, on a much better track.

Knock on wood. Err, no, don't. ;)

[–]JoeBagelz 62 ポイント63 ポイント  (19子コメント)

I honestly can't help but laugh at this kind of thing. I know I'm an asshole and please, feel free to downvote. But how can masturbation get to be THAT much of an issue that your life goes down the drain because of it? Someone please explain

Edit: Alright I finished reading the post and nope. This is just bullshit. Masturbation isn't that destructive.

[–]252life2 Days 23 ポイント24 ポイント  (7子コメント)

I agree with you that this post is exaggerated ridiculously, but it is not about the act of masturbation, it is about the destructive lifestyle of having an addiction. Masturbation isn't an inherently destructive act, but being addicted to something such as porn will slowly destroy your life.

[–]limptrouble18 Days 10 ポイント11 ポイント  (5子コメント)

It's the side effects that screws your life. You lose a lot of energy, you become more grumpy, and most important, you get brain fog. You will find it difficult to study, to make friends, you will lack motivation, eventually will get into depression and the facts can continue. My whole adolescence got screwd up by this. My life was full of misery, depressions and loneliness. I was afraid to make friends, i was overly complexed, and sad. By masturbating frequently you lose a lot of energy that can be used in productive stuff. Since i quit, my gym results are unbelievable, i have o ton of energy. My mood got out from the clouds and I care less about what people think. I feel more alpha. Masturbation it's cheating, so every cheater get punished. I guess it's the way of nature that punish you for not having sex with a real women.

[–]FearTheLegion82 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I guess it's the way of nature that punish you for not having sex with a real women.

So true!

[–]Lefeudufou 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

So you need to get laid to become a better person? Rethoric question

[–]JoeBagelz 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Isn't that just being a teenager? Depression and angst.

[–]limptrouble18 Days [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Is this how you see it? All grey and cold? Is it normal to have suicide attempts? is it normal to cry every night until you fall asleep? is it normal to have find it hard speaking even with a friend? Teenager huh?

[–]JoeBagelz [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

No but if you experienced these things then it isn't because of masturbation. Its because you are depressed and you either need to take medication or talk to a professional. In your first comment you said "and the facts continue" what facts are these? I have not seen a single true case where just the act of masturbation destroys someone's life. Its always something more.

[–]JoeBagelz 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yeah I guess that makes sense.

[–]Skippernaut89 Days 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (3子コメント)

don't forget if you masturbate you lose 20 IQ points!!!!

[–]Mxnada8 Days 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (2子コメント)

JESUS! Can he help me get them back ???

[–]Dancedude-VVeedst0rm 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Just dont jerk off for 2 days you will get those 20 iq points back

[–]Hexaceton93 Days 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Can confirm, did not do it for over 90 days, I am currently finishing my fourth PhD in 5 days, cause my IQ can't help but rising every second. Doctors hate me!

[–]GenghisKhanSpermShot65 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

There is science to it, if you occasionally masterbate like a lot of people you're good. If you overdo it it can really fuck up your dopamine receptors. When I stopped I actually started dreaming more, was happier and able to focus on little things I couldn't before, more energy, it really changed my life. It really can fuck up your life and I know it, but I was obsessive and addicted so not everyone is the same. But there is science behind how it changes your neurons and pathways. Most of us that have had this addiction and changed know how crazy our life changed for the better after we stopped. I was against this sub before I started so I get the skepticism but it really works.

[–]eireoh44 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I masturbated 3 times a day for 3 years, and this post pretty much describes how negative and depressing my life was. If it didn't happen to you, it doesn't mean it's a lie. Some people have very minute drawbacks due to wasting all that energy, but some people, like me as a teenager, take the habit to extremes and it completely and utterly took the drive out of my life.

[–]loukaspetourkas0 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

well easy, succumb to crippling tapping at a key moment, and you won;t something done. With brain fog and compulsive repetition, perhaps you don't finish an assignment. fit in as much study time....

[–]apoetindisguise1 Day 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah, all these dudes attesting to having dealt with this shit are just full of it. Just because YOU haven't experienced what he's written up doesn't mean it's not real. A little respect goes a long way. Referring to something as bullshit because you're happily oblivious makes no one who this shit resonates with feel any better.

[–]JoeBagelz 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh yeah of course. But 20 IQ points, seriously.

[–]jwmp2 Days -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

The first rule in life is to not judge others. unless you have experienced it shut the fuck up.

[–]JoeBagelz 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

How do you know that I havent experienced addiction?

[–]Nek0deover one year 23 ポイント24 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Are you fucking kidding me? Those things happen because you isolate yourself on reddit and stare at screens

[–]Mister-builder2 Days 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Try to tell the difference.

[–]GenghisKhanSpermShot65 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That is a part of it, addiction is in a lot of forms for a lot of us. Screens, masturbation, substance abuse ect.

[–]Arclight1993 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is easily one of the funniest things I have ever seen on the internet. Jesus Christ...

[–]idgafulb 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (3子コメント)

You're fucking retarded.

Jesus Christ.

[–]wildmans0 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

I agree that it should be taken with a grain of salt but to simply call it retarded seems immature to me

[–]IdiotaRandoma [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

It's not an unreasonable response to a post containing no factual content.

[–]idgafulb [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Is it immature to disregard a shitpost with a bunch of baseless claims many of which have been proven false?

It shouldn't be taken as anything but bullshit. Where the fuck does OP even come up with this shit? And who upvotes it?

[–]Skippernaut89 Days 28 ポイント29 ポイント  (6子コメント)

This is fucking ridiculous

[–]thedogz11 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah I'm sorry but it sounds hyper-exaggerated as fuck. It's like the opposite side of superpowers?

[–]CollaWars1 Day 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Surprised he didn't say you'd go blind.

[–]Mxnada8 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I became blind once...couldn't see anything! I swear I didn't fap

[–]GodIsButLove88 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Catching up!

[–]Skippernaut89 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh shoot we're still going strong bro!

[–]throwawaynofap1325 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Posts like this is why our movement will keep losing any legitimacy it's managed to accumulate.

It is one thing to talk about dopamine and energy levels and addictions, and it's quite another to talk about losing 20 IQ points from masturbating.

OP if you genuinely believe half the things you've typed here no amount of NoFap will save your IQ

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[–]Jacob_wallace0 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Nope. None of those things happened to me at all and I jerked it for the better part of twenty years. This post is just stupid.

[–]bioguy365 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you for this! This is definitely something that I needed to read right now.

[–]T-ronaldo12358 Days 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Dontknow what to say. Your words just hit me like a truck. I know whats its like to be in that hell and I dont wish to go back. Thank you for this read and I wish you well in the future bro.

[–]doc_brietzover one year 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (6子コメント)

This is the dumbest thing I have read since the last time I read something from /r/The_donald

I am sorry but come on guys.

[–]apoetindisguise1 Day -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (5子コメント)

It's "dumb" because you find you can't relate?

[–]doc_brietzover one year 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (4子コメント)

No, because masturbating won't make you lose 20 IQ points. No sources for any of those absurd claims. I can't tell if this guy is serious or just fucking with me.

[–]shishkal 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Maybe not cognitive abilities so much but motivation, at least if its excessive PMOing, and sheer determination to solve a hard problem is really a big part of the equation of life. But maybe excessive PMO does lead to cognitive impairments. I can relate to that actually, though haven't reseearched it too thoroughly

[–]wildmans0 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Believe it or not but that hit home for me. I'm in medical school and the brain fog resulted in bad test grades.. maybe it's not directly correlated to IQ but it really does FOG up your mind and memory

[–]apoetindisguise1 Day 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I can personally attest to all of them with the exception of the IQ claim. I think, though, that you took it too directly. That's by no means a fact. I think he simply wanted to communicate that your cognitive abilities will be impaired and I think a lot of us here know that despite there not being "scientific evidence" readily available.

[–]positronik 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Maybe you can attest to the IQ claim because you're just that stupid.

[–]joeben81 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (2子コメント)

This is the dumbest shit I've ever read. Ever.

[–]doc_brietzover one year [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Thank God I am not the only one.

[–]weliveyeh0 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

This. I guarantee the guy who wrote this is a loser/has nothing going on with his life.

Then they find nofap and think that will magically solve all their problems. They start thinking that just because they don't touch their willy they're somehow morally superior to 'normal' guys.

Im pretty sure most successful guys jerk off, they just don't take it to the extreme and do it in moderation.

[–]AKAKX00007 Days 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Boner killer !

[–]potatobrowser 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm going on week 2 and I'm starting to feel the effects. Really hard to describe, but quitting is DEFINITELY WORTH IT. Especially if yuh have low self confidence or don't believe in yourself.

[–]d1kmeat60 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Revolutionary. Should be on a plaque

[–]confused_by_default 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Excellent post. I wish I read this 10 years ago

[–]BadManners123116 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Just stop jerking off guys, you're better off without it

[–]Symbiote0801 Day 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow you just defined my life, was about to relapse and read this post, thanks

[–]Improvingmanolo56 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I just needed this!! Thank you brother!!

[–]forabetterlifemate7 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you so much brother ♥

[–]Primani7 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

My problem is that I am lashing out far more without fapping. Also, I over react and get stressed out far more easily :/

[–]thunderpunch64 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

This has already happened to me. No friends, no career, no life. All because I'm too weak to control myself. I'm a complete addict so this stuff resonates hard with me. Don't be like me guys. It's not worth it.

[–]nikeangelo [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

This situation you just said is what I am now today

[–]Mandingo69_ 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Does anyone else find that after fapping, the next day something goes wrong God punishes via arguments, embarrassments or just taking something away from you? Or that it takes just one fap to destroy it all. Back to zero. Not fapping for about two weeks or so works wonders it's as though life willingly comes to you. I guess it's down to fapping being a unnatural sin thus God's punishment. In my religion fapping is a minor sin but constantly doing a minor sin becomes major due to not giving it up.

[–]VaginalFury42 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

When I PMO'd everyday secretly hiding it from my girlfriend, she would notice it in some way all the time. We got into arguments about stupid things and her mood was very bitchy, without a reason.

Since I do NoFap , shes a lot more calm and happy and we enjoy our relationship again. I believe PMOing makes everything around you worse than it actually would be.

After a longer PMO session I also had a lot of really dumb things happening to me that felt like a 'punishment from god' as you said. Also made tons of stupid decisions where I could have slapped my own face for. Its incredible how PMO makes ones life worse in so many ways..

[–]direx3012 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Well said my friend. I hope roll back all the issues i created in my life

[–]Neveratpeace[S] 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I am sure you can make it, with courage and perseverance

[–]LeoDeFinchi2 Days 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Damn so many good ppl on here

[–][deleted] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I know right? This sub is a gold mine!

[–]shaze2250 Days 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This deserves way more up votes

[–]apoetindisguise1 Day 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Is this written from personal experience? I may as well have written this myself. Everything is the truth.

[–]--done-- 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

fucking beautiful

[–]ggtooez16 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Excellent work my friend. Very encouraging thoughts

[–]ace2792 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (4子コメント)

51 days streak , it kinda makes me sad relapse.

[–]ace2792 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

I could do more days , sometimes i am just too lonely.

[–]ValhallaShores27 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Or bored. Don't get bored.

[–]ace2792 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah I was bored and lonely like really fucking bored man. First Month was really good and productive month din't wasted any time. After I achieved some of my goals and days were stable then I started to get bored lol. What I lack is friends I guess. If I have more friends to hang out with , it can keep me occupied and socializing ain't bad.

[–]ValhallaShores27 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I hear ya. I'm in total monk mode, even socially. Working 7 days a week, lifting weights, and learning to code. It's tough when you have an extra 10 minutes or 20 minutes, so I took up photography to boot. Gives me an excuse to get out of the house.

[–]yogajogging1 Day 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Nicr

[–]infernostyle 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I think about this all the time. It is time for me to stop. I've never enjoyed doing porn or masturbation. It has always just been something my body "needed."

[–]TheHuskarl0 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I used to be the wittiest person in my class, back when I was in the 10 grade. I started masturbating when I started my 11th grade and that's when everything changed. I started losing my confidence (even though there were other reasons for that too).

But I am sure that I can beat my PMO and start becoming more interesting again. A few short streaks here and there has already helped me and I've started noticing considerable changes already. I believe that NoFap is a major component in personal development, to some people at least.

[–]LLCOOK 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

This is all true unfortunately as someone who is experiencing lots of those symptoms after years of hard PMO :(

The IQ "drop" hurts as well, I don't know if my actual IQ is down but I used to be very witty and sharp, used to make people laugh all the time, now I'm not, I feel slower, like I lost that spark.

Is it something that can go back if I'll continue NF? (day 50 here)

[–]pphysicist4 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah you can, a lot of people report alleviated brain fog. It comes back. Keep yourself productive.

[–]LLCOOK 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks for the answer, at day 50 I don't feel any brain fog and I think there is an improvement but I'm still not really close being as sharp and fast (thinking) as I used to, hopefully it will resolve, I feel like I did some serious damage there after all those years.

[–]IHaveBushyEyebrows4 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That´s one hell of a motivational speech my friend

[–]rodondof 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

today is the day, when these words are especially helpfull. thank you

[–]MarkusofMorn2 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

thank you i needed this so much

[–]Spedboy619 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

There is science to it, if you masturbate you lose a lot of people to quit.

[–]dayone_270 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You left out that your dick will stop working

[–]someone55555 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Exaggerated as fuck, but maybe that's what we need(?) :)

[–]insanefighter39534 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Drop in IQ? Plz elaborate

[–]Penguin3275 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Probably the mental clarity/improvements in school that some people report

[–]Tony-Reddit54 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks, just what I needed :)

[–]MikeynLikey 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

First line is completely true.

[–]Draeju3 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Look down back up!where are you? you are in the Life, the Life you want to Life! :)

[–]mondfish7 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Poetry

[–]D3M015 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

But that's me already, so what's the point? How can stopping reverse all that damage?

[–]NEVER_FAP_AGAIN961 Day [スコア非表示]  (6子コメント)

Seems like this post has been invaded by some trolls from other sub's who have a pathological hate towards anyone who tries to change themselves for the better.

What the fuck is the point of commenting on a post you don't resonate with? For me personally, I fucking resonate with this post so fucking much, and some fucking troll will show up and tell me it's not true? Well fuck you bro.

You my man, has spoken some wise words. Haven't read a better motivational post in a while.

[–]IdiotaRandoma [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I would rather be lied to than have actual reasons to do things

[–]KennethMinge [スコア非表示]  (4子コメント)

pathological hate towards anyone who tries to change themselves for the better.

Or...they don't think lying to people is okay. A loss in IQ points? If anyone seriously believes this bullshit they need professional help.

All I see here is desperate people looking for something to blame their problems on and liars willing to exploit that.

[–]NEVER_FAP_AGAIN961 Day [スコア非表示]  (3子コメント)

I know some strange shit is currently going on in the US with your fucking fake news and stuff, but are you honestly unable to separate the positive stuff from a small, small thing you disagree with? Is it that hard to do it, or are you going to bother everyone here with a fucking omg lol wtf he said masturbation lowers IQ lol lmao retard, or have you been conditioned to focus on a small part of the text you disagree with and remain ignorant to a lot of positive stuff?

[–]KennethMinge [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

The entire post is full of lies and exaggeration, I just picked out one of the most obvious and ridiculous lies as an example.

I'm not going to waste my time trying to undo your brainwashing, I commented here because I don't think liars should go unchallenged, that's all.

[–]NEVER_FAP_AGAIN961 Day [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Okay bro, now fuck off to r/all with your useless negativity and social conditioning at it's best

[–]KennethMinge [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Pathetic. Calling out lies isn't social conditioning, you are disturbingly brainwashed. Stop wanking, you very desperately need those IQ points back.

[–]patasucia7 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Excellent, some of the points totally resonated with me.

[–]MrVahas66 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Ι am not sure about the IQ but some of them are pretty acurate!

[–]Frank_Qi5 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Great motivational post but if you were going for universal, only a small percentage of the world has light enough skin to get red cheeks. Don't forget about our more melanated comrades.

[–]hayze105 [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I could definitely say this is true... I recently binge 4 times after my 22 day relapse and i just feel effortless, no desire to get anything done and lazy.... I feel like a zombie but I'm officially done with materbating now that see what happens

[–]nwv [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Sounds a lot like you have a shame problem, friend.

[–]team_p00ns_u [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I can definitely attest to all of them with the mass downvotes?

[–]SlySoothSayer146 Days [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Does faping actually lower IQ ?

[–]moehrse [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Yes, it drops right after your palms of hands get hairy.

[–]ImmaRealBoy [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

This doesn't apply solely to PMO. This is man's fight with his addictive thought patterns. The fight within, who's going to win? The side he feeds.

[–]JeffersonSales0 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

If you continue fapping, you will watch as your friends, who, though not talented as you, but more disciplined, are now going to Stanford while you watch soap operas with your family.You will see them get girlfriends, meet new people, go out to have fun, all the while your social circle dwindles and the people you thought were your friends become strangers.

In my case, my old nerd PMO-lovers friends are succeeding in life, getting more and more popular in our college. One of them already got a job while the other is one of the most popular guys in our course (computer science). He already travelled to US and applied to a 1 year interchange program. We're all still virgin (i think) and never had any gf. Meanwhile, i am the NoFap guy and i'm still stuck in life, getting fat, lazy, 95% anti-social, don't know anyone there anymore and have tons of failed classes.

I'm the living proof that NoFap won't make shit for you if you don't take your ass off your stove and get things done. Death would be a blessing for me these days.

[–]infanty358 days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

What a load of bullshit

[–]Sn33kyR0gue33 Days [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I get that excessive masturbation and porn consumption is bad, but honestly, it's nearly as black and white like you portrayed. You can still fap and be successful, happy and confident lol. Don't treat nofap as the end all be all cure of every problem in your life. Everyone is different and we each have different sex drives, needs and lifestyles. I honestly don't think abstaining from masturbation is a viable solution for everyone out there; balance is key.

[–]kurtchella1 Day [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I'm a 20 year old male who has had problems restraining from fapping since 2007. Can confirm that I have 2 friends at Stanford while I am still watching The Price Is Right with my grandma, still having a cough from winter break and am questioning if I have dropped IQ points.

[–]Vigilant_OW -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (5子コメント)

I can't tell if this is a joke or not, but if it is then it's hilarious, what idiot would believe this horseshit.

[–]Neveratpeace[S] 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Friend, this is not a joke, just my life experience s

[–]positronik 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You are sick, and you are spreading false information and making people feel worse about themselves. -20 IQ points? Lashing out at parents and strangers? Not smiling at people? Wtf are you smoking. None of this is related.

An addiction to jerking off is harmful, but you are making up complete bullshit.

[–]Wants_Improvement15 Days 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Why are you here? Seriously.

[–]Pieisgood45 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (1子コメント)

This subreddit is literally a cult that spreads bullshit broscience

[–]eddy_j542 Days -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What is cultish about it?

[–]iwoleuplikedis1 Day -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

excellent post.

[–]JLb0498 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Can you gain back lost IQ? Or is it gone forever if lost?

[–]Jonazales014 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

You went HARD IN THE PAINT with this post!!

[–]SpartanNoFap 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

NoFap is the key to immortality.

[–]yodha_veer16 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow bro...lovveeeddd it ! All the things you mentioned has happened to me. I have experienced each and every point. But Now I am on my path to recovery. May God bless us all !!

[–]Web_Crusader 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm feeling exactly like this right now, thank you.

What's up with the mass downvotes? Encourage your fellow NoFap brothers, don't discourage.. Smh

[–]baap_ko_mat_sikha22 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks for sharing OP.

[–]BadManners123116 Days 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

He's right tho guys. I think he means fapping non stop to porn, and not just a weekly wank or something.

Pmo destroys your brain chemistry, you won't have that radiating smile that makes people like you instantly. You'll be a weird creepy loser. You can't have any drive or ambition being a pmo addict, you won't be motivated to get a girl friend, and one of the most commonly noted side effects of nofap is you're not depressed anymore in a matter of weeks.

Pmo is districtive. Period. Anyone who says other wise probably hasn't been on a long streak and can't tell what life pmo free feels like.

I'm coming up on 4 months now no M, and few days were I watched P, and O only from sex. Trust me, even thinking about P is wreaking havoc on your brain. There's a noticeable difference on weeks where it doesn't cross my mind to days where I let my self think about it here and there.

Remove yourself as far away as you can from PMO, its absolutely terrible for you. Get a girlfriend, and then focus 100% on what you want to achieve in life. It's really as simple as that.

No matte what you do, life is gonna go on. You can either spend the next year jerking off to porn and living suboptimaly. Or you can stop PMO, and move on from there.

[–]SpartanNoFap -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Damn, who wrote that? Shakespeare? Frost? Poe?

[–]Vigilant_OW -4 ポイント-3 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I'm here to show people that masturbating is not bad. It's healthy to masturbate, but masturbating should be done in moderation.

[–]oziz_PA 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

What could I possibly get out of jerking off right now? Seems like a waste of time and energy.

[–]positronik 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Just like listening to music, playing video games, or any number of stuff like getting better at a rubix cube. Jerking off doesn't gain you anything, but neither does taking a nap or watching netflix. The issue is when you start making habit out of it to the point that it's an addiction and hurts your life.

[–]ChipMonk998 Days -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

We don't masturbate often... But when we do, we do it inside a woman.

[–]apoetindisguise1 Day -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Ok, go. Enlighten me.

[–]medsilver38 Days -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Beautiful my friend..

[–]xyvw4 Days -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This ❤❤❤

[–]abovexbeyondtv13 Days -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Love this, thank you.

[–]dogteam23227 Days -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not fapping and this still happening... *Insert crippling depression meme

[–]Thisneedstoend134 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I was about to give in, so I checked Nofap for some inspiration, This is exactly what I needed. Thanks so much!

[–]loki3521 Day -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Holy crap. This need to be a link on the Panic Button.

[–]FlyingCraneKick55 Days -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Nice post, can relate to a lot of this.

[–]Kapaz87 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I can definitely attest to the dropping of IQ part. Very well written. An accurate account of life in the hole.

[–]dearslumlord1 Day -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Man, this hits deep.

You know, I remember a time (when I was about 15-16), where I actually didn't give a -fuck-. And you know something? I wasn't fapping. For some reason, when I turned 19-20, I started doing it like a religion. 21 now, looking into breaking this habit for good. Thanks for the post, very reassuring

[–]bigdog6473820 Days -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

powerful

[–]Churraso430 Days -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

How this made me feel

The song Push It To The Limit sums up our quest for improvement very well, it should be our anthem

[–]vinmenn -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

damn. This is my first reddit comment. It's yours. I'm framing this on my wall.

[–]eliogaming2 Days -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Deep post, thanks for sharing.

I have something to say for that last paragraph:
As the Bible says, laziness will be the downfall of one. (My words) It will bring down your confidence and motivation.

[–]hellABunk -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

No wonder people make mean faces. I just smile back. XD

[–]Zack_stylo5 Days -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Great post