I'm just 18 years old. I've got few hobbies and also live healthy.

I just started working 12 hours a day, previously from 8 hours a day, on a construction site. I work hard to earn some money that will support my future business and maybe community college. What I observed is that I spend so much time at work, just to get off and go to gym. I have not too much time for myself but society still expects me to chase women and take them on dates where I am expected to pay my hard earned money. How can anyone think it's fair? Most of girls my age date men in 22-26 year old age anyway. The game is rigged and no one with a brain should play it.