I have been going the other way for a while now. I am 34, no kids and live a pretty good life. I have been with alot of women , first they all have come back looking for me. This year alone i had two from 7 yrs ago come look for me finding me on facebook. One was talking to me all summer but I never initiated contact during this time. I did make the mistake of responding and even letting her come talk to me outside my home. When she asked to come inside I told her it was to messy of a disaster and said no. She kept calling me at 8 am and I foolishly would answer. I wouldn't ask for anything or really give much other than platonic talk. I say stuff to get off the phone like "im going to go get something to eat" and then she would reply with affection saying I shouldnt be eating out and that I should clean up so she can come cook for me. This goes on until the first week of november and then she calls me and starts saying "she doesnt want to be with me and that she doesnt find me attractive anymore" which i mean i could careless I wasnt trying to do anything and i never cleaned anything up so i could continue to use that as an excuse. I reply with well why would we be attracted to each other if we havent even spoken or seen each other in years. I really dont remember anything else. Anyway so it turns out she got married , because it came out in my facebook feed (i just found out) . I think to myself , why would she do such a thing ? Why would she keep trying to come into my house and want me to send her pics and send me pics , offer to cook for me and clean for me. Then end up married hahahahaha. My moment of weakness bro's , even if I didn't really give in . I feel terrible that I did not just ignore her. I knew better , I have been a player (OG redpill) but that got old every time its the same pattern of behavior. It angers me to think that she saw me doing well on facebook and attempted to break me somehow. I know this was the reason , one of the things that always bothers me is when someone purposely attempts to provoke me in some way. Through my years I have learned not to let these type of people weaken you but to strengthen you. Become stronger than before BROS , stronger than before.