Hello fellas, I wanted to share this story with you.
I was talking on skype with two guys working on a programming project. Let's call the first guy Jack and the other John. Jack said that he is in need of friends. I said if you want to hang out you can hang out with me. No problem. John also said the same thing. Although Jack didn't like me the first day at school because I was put in his project group that was already going on for three weeks and I was registered late on school and had to be put in a project group somewhere hence the reason. But no hard feelings. At least from my side.
After jack said that he wanted friends he said that he wants a girlfriend. Well, you aren't the first bruh. However, I had an inner laugh within me cuz Jack doesn't know what he is getting into. I just said you don't know what you are getting yourself into. Flat out without any explanation. And trust me if you have this programming degree and you have a good paying job women want you so focus on this project we are working on.
As time went on Jack was just talking about how his sister's friend knew two girls that he can hook jack up with. Valuing yourself based on knowing women. That was the perspective I was getting. Jack got their numbers from him. (How awesome Big accomplishment really /s.)
So I felt this urge telling him that he is just an option to those girls but I had to say it in a normal casual way. I said to jack what makes you so exclusive that those girls are willing to date you when they have a lot of other options. Jack replied "No it's not them. They are different. They don't have that many options." (Saying NAWALT when you only know them from a few text messages.)
After he was done replying, I asked the question how many suitors do you think a girl gets on tinder or facebook to Jack and John? Their replies astonish me. Jack replied "I think around two each day. I got only one so they can get two or five." In my mind I was like wtf, are you fucking kidding me only two or five? I asked John what his answer is and he replied, "well it depends if she is a beautiful woman she can get around ten bla bla bla." I said sorry I asked the question wrong. "I said "how many suitors do you think a hot babe gets and how many suitors does a whale get. Sorry for saying whale let's just say a fat girl."
The answer from them was basically hot babe gets around 10 each day. Landwhale gets 0. Jack said "Nobody wants a whale. So no one talks to them." The delusion is real fellas. The reality is above 100 minima each day. As well as the landwhale and the hot babe who is a ten. I said to them well plot twist "the hot babe get's a minimum of 100 and the landwhale get's around 20/30 each day. And I can prove it. You can also look at your sister's facebook account and you will see for yourself if she has decent photo's on it how many messages she get if it isn't deleted. If those women can get 100 messages each day you are just another guy she talks to. The topic got switched back to working. In the meantime, I gave them this link. Couldn't give them plenty of fish experiment part one because their self-esteem will get shattered to pieces.
After time went on, Jack talks again and says the girl is going with their friends to the attraction park today. I said why aren't you going with her to the attraction park. Jack replied "no I don't know them yet" I said that you were in need of friends and that was the chance you could take.
jack said that he asked her to go on a dinner date the next day. LMAO. I asked him who is going to pay. The man pays. I'm a gentleman. Facepalm. So I was like isn't a relationship 50/50. Why are you the one paying for her? You barely know her. Jack replied "It's what gentlemen do. If you are a real man you pay for a date." Please. Then I said to jack why does a man have to be a gentleman for a woman when the woman gives basically nothing in return You just know her from a few text messages and you are giving her a reward. Trust me you are now making yourself vulnerable for her to use you. Dropped truth bomb rocket R-40 in da face. Jack keeps bragging "No. I'm a nice guy. It is the right thing to do. It's what gentlemen do. It's the right thing etc." I don't feel sorry for him at this point. I just said if she is your girlfriend, of course, you can pay for her if you want, but not a woman you know from just a few text messages. You are doing indirect prostitution. You want something from her and you do this through a dinner date. You might as well get a real prostitute lol just saying mate. But you know what I will say do what you want. His answer was interesting perspective. Your date can end up in three scenarios.
She becomes your girlfriend
She asks you for another date to get to know you. Can be led to the friend zone or girlfriend.
She just uses you.
I'm saying this for your own best interest. I'm experienced in this field so I know where I'm coming from. He says I know and keeps ignoring what I said. I don't feel sorry for him for whatever tragedy that will come his way. I gave a bit of red pill truth there. IMO you can give some guys an introduction to the red pill but that's the max. If they ever want more information I can give it to them. However make sure you don't say this shit to your boss, teacher or someone else. It's because they were classmates that I could say that. In the end, I said this is some other perspective you can look at. If you can counter-argument me I will gladly want to hear it. Still waiting for that answer.(There isn't)
Just a quick view on how delusional some men really are. Be happy that you know the truth.