Women don’t want to be your friend. Plain and simple. Sure. It may seem like they do, but underneath they don’t. Why? Because it’s all about value. From a female perspective, your friendship is only worthwhile if you can provide value in 1 of 2 ways.

Beta Male Value (BMV) = Do you have friends who throw awesome parties? Are you part of a large social circle? Friends with singer of a famous band?

Alpha Male Value (AMV) = Best player in your sport? CEO of your company? Movie star?

Before I get started, every time you read an iteration of the word friend, put air quotes around it.

 

 

Beta Male Value Having BMV means that women will befriend you because, like the above examples, even though she sees you as a Beta, you still have some value. Friendship of this type has 4 endings.

1.) She sees you have value. Like having a large social circle, or having many. She becomes your friend and uses you to ‘slingshot’ herself into a better position within the social caste. If you’re a Beta Buck, you’ll know it’s happening because she’ll be hitting you up for rides to the party and then ditching you to go talk to Chad.

1.5) You lose the ability to provide value and she ghosts you. For example. She slingshots herself to a better position within the caste, and enters into an LTR with Chad, or befriends someone with more value than you. You’ve lost your usefulness to her, and she'll ghost you. Number one will always transition into 1.5, unless the factors of number 2 are in effect.

2.) She stays friends with you out of uncertainty in her new position. She is uncertain whether or not Chad finds value in her, or in her ability to provide Chad with value. This one is purely circumstantial. In this instance, staying friends with you is strategically beneficial because if Chad pumps-and-dumps her, but she doesn’t want to give up, she still has a foothold within the group. She’ll keep you around in order to continue mining value from you. Getting rides, invites to parties, etc.. and hopefully get the chance to redeem herself. If she doesn’t care that much, 1.5 is back in play.

3.) Ending 1.5 happens to some other guy in your group. That guy lost his value, but she doesn’t want to give up, so she befriends you because you have more value, in which case the whole cycle starts over.

4.) There are rare instances where none of the above apply. In these instances, a woman may remain friends with you strictly to boost her ego. She’ll keep you around because you’re a BP orbiter and she knows you want to fuck her. (RM, Of Ego and Choice)

 

 

Alpha Male Value Having AMV results in women wanting to be your friend because the value you provide is of a higher quality. She receives this value either Directly or Indirectly.

Direct Value = You grace her with your dick. Her view on her position within the sexual marketplace and her perception of self rises because she is the one whom you chose to fuck above all others.

Indirect Value = If you won’t fuck them, they’ll be content to just be around you, as it will afford them the chance to either A.) potentially fuck you later, or B.) gather resources from other members of the group. (See Beta Male Value)

 

RECIPROCAL VALUE = This one is interesting. Whether or not you are intending to provide value to a woman does not negate the fact that if she sees you possess any type of value that is a worthwhile mining endeavor, she will attempt to extract it.

 

Suppose the latter is true, and you are providing her Indirect Value because you won’t bang her and she 's just content to be around you for the time being. In this situation, more often than not you'll see women start trying to provide you with value instead. Yes. Hard to believe, but it’s true. They will actually go out of their way and work hard to find ways to provide value to you because they understand on an unconscious level that they must provide value in order to remain in your good graces, less they be useless and expelled from the group. If they provide no value, they will fade into obscurity and become irrelevant. (See sidebar, On Value and the Value of Women.) This behavior can take many shapes. She’ll find parties for you. She’ll bring you gifts or pay for your gas. Sometimes, they’ll even find other women for you to fuck if your reputation is that of a player. (I'll touch on that in my next post.)

 

 

The effectiveness of both qualities depends on their existence and upkeep. Lose your value and watch women ditch you. It happens every time. That’s why women lose interest in washed up celebrities or an alpha who’s been overthrown. He’s lost his value in their eyes and is no longer useful. Don’t misunderstand me. This is not an exposé on why women are bad or evil, or why you shouldn’t enjoy the value they can potentially provide. This is simply a statement of facts.

 

 

Women view friendship opportunistically in the same way they view love opportunistically. (RM, Women-Love-Opportunistically) There is no other reason for women to be friends with you. If you’re in the same social circle, but she didn’t enter it through you, then the friendship is purely circumstantial and she doesn’t really care about you, and you’re not really friends.

 

 

Don’t fool yourself. This might hurt some of you and some of you may rage. You'll get over it. If you’ve come to accept any amount of Red Pill truths, then this one shouldn’t be too hard to swallow. Don't start hamstering telling yourself "No way Samsung. I have plenty of female friends and they're true friends. We tell each other everything! She'd take a bullet for me!" That's some BluePill logic and you need to destroy it. This is also why you should never seek friendship with women. Because these reasons are the only reasons a women will remain friends with you. This is not true friendship. If you want real friends, google Stephen Mansfield and get his book “Building Your Band of Brothers” and go make real man friends.

Why? Because women don’t want to be your friend.