There's that cliche that goes: "Look, you can't possibly consider yourself a failure with women. You come from a long line of reproductive successes - the fact that you are here solidifies the truth that all your ancestors were successful [in the mating rat-race]".
So I look at it more closely and critically...
My granddad was the ultimate blue-piller. Married at the age of 35, to a first controlling woman who took "pity" on him & considered him great asset (in terms of how predictable and manageable he was). Sexless marriage, servitude, being a "responsible adult", and all that. The deal he was handled wasn't the worst out there, though (as per today's standards) - a life of hard work, married to a woman, who herself only knew hard work.
My dad was clueless guy. Met some plain Jane in high-school, and married her, out of "true love". Plain Jane proved unsuitable, and "true love" didn't move mountains. She buried his dreams, turned bipolar, and cucked & divorced him later on. To this day, that bitch loiters around, moaning about her futile efforts on "becoming finally happy".
Both of these guys:
Were treated crappy by women.
Didn't exactly "live" their lives.
Wouldn't make it in today's dating world.
Don't comprehend today's realities (with Tinder sloots and all).
So that's an interesting thought. What's the contemporary mating ratio, again? 60% of guys who can't get any, 20% who get some on some rare occasions, and 20% players who fuck everything? Hmmm. I think I'm definitely in a better position than both my dad and granddad (skill-wise, achievement-wise)... and that, with my current market value, leaves somewhere at the 60% mark, I guess (a king of the losers).
Also an interesting note how these blue-pillers never talk about strategy and/or awareness and/or self-respect regarding women. These two, they taught me virtually nothing of value in that regard.
If I do a simplified induction here (a generalization), I think that in today's climate, those blue-pillers are on a road to extinction. Also, I don't consider myself a continuation of some "legacy of reproductive successes" - on the contrary, I feel like mistake (hell, why am I even here?)
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