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She fucking "monkey branched" me, I hate relationships. DONE WITH WOMEN (self.MGTOW)

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Everybody warned me about this bitch, people I barely even know went out of their way to tell me she's crazy, my sister's boyfriend who I loathe entirely even had the courtesy to tell me to dip the fuck out when I had the chance years ago. Nope, I'm a regular Jack Dawson and love conquers all, mother fucker! YEAH RIGHT.

Instead I get my face shit on again with this "monkey branch" bullshit.

FOUR YEARS TOGETHER and she's been texting another guy for God knows how long. I should've known. What the shit else would any girl be on Snapchat/Instagram/Cancerbook so much for? Phone might as well be stapled to her fucking palm, easily 100 selfies a day. Then three days after splitsville, she's got a new boyfriend and is shit talking me all over town to people I've never met let alone heard of. My boss's boss has to know by now.

I'm barely even heartbroken, I'm more furious. How could you look somebody in the eyes and forcefeed me bullshit about love and affection for so long? Why would you defile my name when YOU dumped ME? I'm absolutely dumbfounded. I feel like I've just awoken from a nightmare to an equally shitty reality.

I'm absolutely seething. Nobody does this bullshit but women. You never hear about men jumping from bitch to bitch into LTR to LTR like bees to flowers. He might dick a bitch down, but he won't fuck with her heart and he'll leave her ego intact (or at least the remnants won't be his fault). It's sickening. Women are sickening. MGTOW MODE: ACTIVATED.

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[–][deleted] 80 ポイント81 ポイント  (8子コメント)

Yep, that will happen, AWALT. Welcome brother, you are among friends here.

[–]The_Grand_Wizowd[S] 25 ポイント26 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Glad to be on the team.

[–][deleted] 26 ポイント27 ポイント  (1子コメント)

You are probably going through red pill rage at the moment but believe me it subsides and indifference takes over.
Don't hate women for who they are, it is just the way they have evolved and adapted throughout evolution. Groups like feminists and gynocentric society as a whole on the other hand are totally valid for contempt and distain because the agendas they put forward destroy and kill men on a daily basis.
Personally I do sometimes get angry at women for the shit they pull on men and you only have to see all the posts and links on here to see their dark nature, I believe these posts are needed to show newcomers they are not going nuts, others have been through it and it is rife in modern society, it also acts as a release valve for any pressure built up in the guy.
Immerse yourself in mgtow and live your life for yourself, fuck everyone else. You owe them nothing.

[–]MGTOW_Monger 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

This!

I believe these posts are needed to show newcomers they are not going nuts, others have been through it and it is rife in modern society, it also acts as a release valve for any pressure built up in the guy.

[–]thehonestdouchebag 12 ポイント13 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Hey man, welcome. I know you're angry now so smoke some weed or have a whiskey or two and get angry/emotional. It's okay to be angry. You'll be angry/sad for a long time. Whatever you do, just keep going.

I was in a similar sort of spot ( young, naive, believed in true love etc ) and had a rude awakening. I know how/what you feel. So believe me when I say, it will pass, maybe not soon, but it will.

Time really does heal all wounds. Maybe not completely, but the anger/rage subsides. The end goal is to realize what women are, not to hate them for it ( as many guys on here do ).

You are angry because you glimpsed reality while you were living in your delusions ( that society programmed into you ) . Once you truly accept women for what they are, you may even enjoy them again.

MGTOW doesn't have to mean no women ever. I will personally never get married or date seriously again, but I won't pass up ass if I want it and can get it. You'll probably be the same way once you truly internalize the truth. For now, just ghost her, delete social media, hit the gym, smoke some weed, and jack off. Kenjataimu is your friend in life, trust me.

[–]clungey93 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Especially smoke some weed

[–]Jesty_Lemon 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

For clarification he means marijuana, not ragwort or ground ivy!

[–]MGTOW_Monger 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Very good advice.

[–]s0ma_ 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

that freedom though... welcome brother.

[–]dashingmuttdawg 35 ポイント36 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Ghost her ass immediately. Either get whatever items you need back from her or abandon it.

Cut off all ties to her. Mutual friends,family,and associates. If she calls and she probably will don't answer. Give her no quarter or acknowledgement that your thinking of her she will revel in it and think she's the shit. It's that whole empowerment shit they thrive on. Take away the power they shrivel and die.

Don't become a shut in be seen out in public. If you run into her just play it casual and quick and smile,and like your in a hurry.

[–]The_Grand_Wizowd[S] 18 ポイント19 ポイント  (3子コメント)

5 star advice I intend to follow without fail. Last thing I would ever want to do is give that smug bitch the satisfaction of knowing she got to me this much.

Shouldn't ever run into her barring an act of God so she's basically dead as far as I'm concerned.

[–]mkonryan 13 ポイント14 ポイント  (1子コメント)

The best revenge is living well. Being incredibly happy that she's gone.

If she sees/knows you're happier without her it bugs the shit out of them.

As for her new boy-toy, don't even sweat it. Yeah it hurts to think some dude is with "your" girl, but remember she was never really yours it was just your turn with her.

She'll fuck the new guy over too, and the one after that,... These hoes aren't loyal.

Honor, integrity, loyalty, are male concepts women have no clue about. They're just children in grown up bodies.

.... Far scarier thing is we let these children vote.

[–]MGTOW_Monger 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Good, now go forth a run your 'woke' version of life

[–]awesomelittlebuddy 19 ポイント20 ポイント  (3子コメント)

https://media.giphy.com/media/S3Ot3hZ5bcy8o/200w.gif

[–]Cunt_Robber 13 ポイント14 ポイント  (1子コメント)

My reaction to most AWALT threads. Duh, the secret's out now, it's just a matter of time until it spreads like california wildfire. There is too much goddamn proof and the women won't curb their behavior to keep it a secret. We'll all eventually see their actions and adjust our mentalities accordingly.

They say at TRP that the top 20% of guys get the top 80% of girls. If these estimates are true, then the bottom 80% of men who don't get pussy should be woke as fuck. Theyre the ones who should be realizing the hard truths while the top 20% bathe in pussy. The 80% are the ones that somehow should be ahead, while the 20% waste their time and resources on the women.

[–]andreas-mgtow 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yes, and that "bottom" 80% runs civilization. They are the bottom only when rated purely by vagina logic.

They hold incredible power, but are not awake... yet.

wimminz say they don't care if those losers go MGTOW, but when they do, Western nations will crash unrecoverably.

Chads can be as pretty as they want, but most are denser than a brick, many are functionally illiterate.

[–]MGTOW_Monger 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Can't go wrong with old Jack

[–]lostapwbm 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (2子コメント)

I'm barely even heartbroken, I'm more furious. How could you look somebody in the eyes and forcefeed me bullshit about love and affection for so long?

Because she probably believed it herself...at the time she was saying it. But planning your future based on nothing but the expectation of a woman's continued loyalty is like building a house on shifting sands.

I'm absolutely seething. Nobody does this bullshit but women. You never hear about men jumping from bitch to bitch into LTR to LTR like bees to flowers.

Serial monogamy. She's never yours; it's just your turn with her.

[–]GetrichonIMP 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

THIS. MY ex couldn't explain her cognitive dissonance. I really meant that I loved you before.. Same bullshit I got. Nice metaphor lost. There is no point being in a relationshit with these felines

[–]MGTOW_Monger 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yup, building a future on shifting sands

[–]Iseewhateyesee 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (0子コメント)

They're like the aliens from Independence Day.

"Peace?.....No, peace!"

Fucking locusts, going from one resource provider to another.

Stay frosty, my friends.

[–]NagHammadiText_Rneat 14 ポイント15 ポイント  (6子コメント)

they lie up to the point they get hold of the new branch incase you unleash fury on them, once they are on the new branch they have a new knight to defend them from the old branch

[–]The_Grand_Wizowd[S] 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Yeah when I initially heard she already had a new guy, my first instinct was just seeing red and wanting to punch something.

It's not his fault though as much as it is hers. I almost feel bad for that poor fucker, he has no idea what he's in for.

[–]mrrightt 15 ポイント16 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Its not even his fault at all. Shes the one that was in a relationship talking to other guys.

[–]GetrichonIMP 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's never his fault btw. If you have a women in a relationship and you're monogamous she is expected to to honour the contract. Unfortunatelyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy women's feeeeeeeeeeeeeeelllllllllllllllingggggggs may become disrupted

[–]MGTOW_Monger 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

As you truly should feel truly sorry for him.

His time will indeed inevitably come.

At least you fucked her before him, right?

[–]TxEagle361 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

In my case, I was able to figure out my ex's plan before she could execute it......and it was soooo entertaining to be able to have the inside curve in her decision loop. It was also heartwarming to see the Chad she took up with dump her 4 months later. Karma does work from time to time.

[–]Incapaisa 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Look brother.. Take time to heal. Remember it could be worse. She could have divorce raped you, sperm jacked you or call the cops on you..while she crocodile tears and bang her head on a door. "she was never yours, it was only your turn"

[–]topapito 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (3子コメント)

I understand you're angry now. But reading your post, you can't possibly be angry at anyone but yourself. You were warned, people put up neon signs for you to read. Crickets. Now you're angry at yourself. Good, this is what will make you take a hard look.

Anger is a bad, bad reason for MGTOW. Oh it's a great catalyst to get you to consider it, but not THE reason for going MGTOW.

MGTOW is the realization that you do NOT need a woman in your house, playacting the leeching housewife who presumably does this for love. I have a full time housekeeper. Bam! Housewife fired. Got a few solid numbers for hooker home delivery. BAM! Old worn out drama pussy fired. The need for a woman has now been reduced from anger to amusement.

So, to wind this down. Don't be too mad at the dog for pissing in the corner, it's what they do. But realize that we need women and learn to use them for those needs. Love? Aside from the accurate collective amusement at the mention of that word in this sub, buy a dog. I have a huge bird that loves me to death. He's a really cool companion.

[–][deleted] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

If you need love, buy a dog. If you need sex, buy a street whore.

Got it.

[–]MGTOW_Monger 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Correct. This direction

[–]BloodyNightWing 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (2子コメント)

It's OK dude. Put your anger out onto something time consuming, be it work, gym, or hobbies. My last-last ex monkey branched me for a dude that was 'just a friend' and now she's living with him (poor guy lol). I was with this trick for 3.5 years. But as soon as she dumped me that's when I monkey branched with my last ex for 10 months, who also monkey branched off and started eating dick again(I'm assuming because she's too dumb to recognize a gentleman from someone who wants a quick fuck). It's a cycle of fuckery.

I understand how you feel - been almost 2 years since the 1st ex. Now I've been working towards my goals and future while these hoes are working on nothing. You have to have the willpower to 'get the fuck over it', if not then you'll just be pouting all the time. Just know that you are better than that. You ALWAYS have room for improvement, most women don't. Logically, you'll win every time if you better yourself; she'll see how shitty her new bf is compared to you and start crawling back, maybe. But why the fuck would you want her back? She's a lower level than you. Hoe that chick.

IN conclusion, it hurts you NOW, you'll eventually get over it depending on how strong you are. Willpower is a skill you must learn. You must remember that you are TOO GOOD for her. Thats the secret. Move on and know that she doesn't deserve you. There's better or there bro, whether or not you're still looking. Once you start getting better, you'll understand what I mean when 'she didn't deserve you and you can find better'.

Good luck and stay strong and always rememeber: 'BITCHES AIN'T SHIT BUT HOES AND TRICKS.

[–]GetrichonIMP 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Time consuming that can give you a ROI

[–]MGTOW_Monger 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Good advice!

[–]day01x 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I actually think it's okay to let it get to you, for now. Be honest with yourself, you're angry and with good reason. The most sensible course of action is to cut out the person that caused you such pain.

Once you've done that, well... I know it doesn't seem like it could, but that anger fades, and surprisingly fast. The absurdity of the situation sinks in, you won't be able to believe how stupid, vapid, and careless others can be. But you won't become as angry about it, over time.

The maximum I've stayed angry over a breakup was maybe a few months. Then other things set in, like plain old disappointment, then renewed love of the self, wanting to progress in other ways, and yes, thinking about how not to get drawn into that situation again.

If you have anything else to focus your efforts on right now, do so. Pour yourself into hobbies, exercise, career, studying, anything. There's so much more to your emotional well-being than the shifting expectations of some precious little girl. You're going to undergo a massive shift of perspective as it sets in just how low down she really was on your priorities. You've got a lot more to live for than one relationship, at one point in time, unjustly messed up by another person.

This is a bad metaphor, but I think you'll get what I mean. Imagine your life is a great, long evening out doing something you love. You're drinking with good friends, or you're taking a ride around a beautiful part of town, or you're watching your favourite film in a cinema you've rented out to yourself. Now imagine that someone spills a drink on your shirt, you hit a string of red lights, the sound cuts out momentarily... It sucks. For a few minutes it feels like your evening is ruined. Like something wonderful to you has been ripped out of your grip, and there's no sign it'll come back. You're angry and you know it's someone's fault. But then a few minutes later, your shirt dries, or the lights change, or the music fades back in... And like that, you've forgotten you were ever angry in the first place.

That's what your ex will become. I guarantee you, a little time focussing on living for yourself, and in a few months your ex will go from the most devious, evil person in the world to an inconvenience.

[–]MGTOW_Monger 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

There's so much more to your emotional well-being than the shifting expectations of some precious little girl.

[–][deleted] 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I hear you. Its always a shock to the system when you find out your baby girl was cheating on you.

Hacked into my girlfriend's email account and found her emails to some 16 year old boy in Michigan. Talking about how she's going to walk down the beach with him and swallow his cock like a circus seal.

I confronted her about it and I was accused of being a creep for spying on her.

[–]ReunionIsland 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That is a serious crime. Pass it along to law enforcement.

[–]andreas-mgtow 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (1子コメント)

What the fuck are you complaining about?

You are a lucky bastard. You escaped unscathed.

Most Men arrive here after being kicked out off their own homes, losing half of their life's earnings, being saddled with alimony payments and cut off their children's lives.

You are free and now you are awake. What a great time to be you!

[–]flashbang123 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

  1. Delete social media, never use again
  2. Hit the gym and start doing 5x5's, the iron doesn't lie
  3. Embrace your freedom - learn a new skill/hobby that expands your mind and may be useful down the road (programming, auto repair, wood work, etc)
  4. Ignore media, advertising, news etc and read more (don't let people put shit in your brain)

[–]EMPIRE_OF_THE_CLOUDS 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Welcome to MGTOW. Remember this rage in the future when you think you've found a unicorn.

AWALT

[–]nmshhhh 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

AWALT.

[–]cheesymold 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Welcome to post relationship torment. These bitches areally fucking pure evil. Same thing happened to me I still get choked thinking how two faced people can be.

[–]geocitiesuser 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

AWALT

99.99999999% of relationships go down this way.

[–]Bonesteel50 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (3子コメント)

you kinda were warned breh, but yea bitches are shitty.

[–]The_Grand_Wizowd[S] 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (2子コメント)

No doubt. I fucked up and believed in the best of people, but it'll never happen again.

[–]jay_jeremiah_lee 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow. Sorry you have to hear this but you definitely walked into that one. Even a proper Blue-Piller would've known that something fishy was going on with that woman.

Good to have you on board.

[–]Onkel_Adolf 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

My friend...all women are amoral, ice-cold psychopaths. Do not attempt to understand their evil ways.

[–]filthyblurt 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I went 13 years and then found out you got lucky son. AWALT.

[–]Setari 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yup. My first relationship was her fucking around with a dude all 4 years (LDR unfortunately so I guess I had it coming though).

Fucking women.

[–]angryomlette 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Nope, do not hate her mate. She is just acting out her true nature. If you have to hate, hate the bluepill mentality.

Welcome to mgtow brother.

[–]Ximkai 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Gahhh, God damn cunts m'irite? I had one do the exact same thing to me at 19. God damn I was a piece of shot back then. But, it's right that you're pissed off.

What do women know of honesty, loyalty, respect? I'm telling you, every single one of them is looking to be kept by the biggest and best deal they can find. There really was once a day where a good woman would help build a man, but that was when marriage was mutually beneficial.

Anyways, be pissed, man. But I also think it's time for you to dig deeper into MGTOW. Watch some videos, read some shit, and just understand that chicks aren't worth it anymore. There's no such thing as women.

[–]Helikzhan 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sucks but yeah you were warned. I'm a pragmatic person by nature. If someone leans on me and says "hey, that person sucks" I ask myself what they have to gain by telling me. If nothing comes to mind I heed their advice.

No point being angry over it now. Your life can go on without being involved with this crazy cunt. Take that in stride. A lesson learned and not one to regret because it gave you insight at an age where you can move on.

[–]Marque01 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sorry to hear it bud, but it sounds like you already have a grasp on the situation. None of it was your fault (cept ignoring your friends advice).

I was in a similar boat once. All my buddies telling me 'she's going to kill you, she's going to kill you' until finally I got out of there.

A couple of months later, she tells me 'I thought about killing you'

She had to repeat it again to me because I brushed it off. Hard to see fault in someone when you're in love.

Reality is a cold heartless bitch sometimes but at least she's honest :)

[–]Jesty_Lemon 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

At least you didn't marry the whore! I mean, who does that shit nowadays?

[–]wildfireboat 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

She was never, ever, yours; It was only just your turn with her.

[–]paperlion60 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's why from this point on, never take anyone's word for it , men or women. You are on your own. Women are the worst because society has told us(including women) that they are special. So when she Miley branched you, somehow it was ok because you were blessed by smelling her shit alone.

[–]Willidoitno 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's hard not to get emotionally involved with someone you've Been with for a long time . But believe me after a few kicks in the Emotional part of yourself. It gets Real easy to walk away after the ride .

[–]BeefyPadlock 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I know exactly how you feel man! You have my utmost sympathy.

Imagine this happening after ten years with the love of your life and a small child involved.

My ex's first marriage ended because her husband cheated,he confirmed it to me, so it's not just some shit she made up. She railed against infidelity on and off the whole time we were together. I was left thinking "well, I never have to worry about her cheating on me".

When she started her affair it was right under my nose, and often times right in my face! I just couldn't see it because I was so blinded by her "loyalty".

I understand your rage. It never really goes away.....

[–]MGTOW_Monger 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Awalt. Don't marry or shack up with any woman in a common law marriage state

[–]gundahir 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

bro i hope that was your wake-up call. do NOT fall asleep again. take care

[–]bad_guy_steve 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

The pain will go away and strengthen you. Luckily no divorce rape, false rape claims, alimony etc.

[–]CoffeeMAGA 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Rip your relationshit.

Good luck fam, but don't fall into the same trap.

[–]OldSchoolRONaissance 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That sucks. But sorry to tell you this but she had a new boyfriend two weeks BEFORE splitsville. When monkey branching women always grab the new branch before letting go of the old one.

Remember this can be a new beginning for you. In five years she'll still be a whore, SMV dropping more each day. But your SMV will only rise. Go full MGTOW and you'll find women throwing themselves at you that you thought were unattainable. Even better you won't CARE ANYMORE.

[–]Raiden627 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's never your girl, just your turn. Women get bored easily and leave. Now's your chance to get bored easily too and leave these whores behind. Go enjoy your life man.

[–]MGTOW_Monger 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Although you are angry, you are now 'woke'.

Go forth now and create your version of life.

[–][deleted] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's a good thing mate. Like ripping off a band aid. You'll sound like your already over it.

The money you are going to save decorative pillows, scented candles, and other useless garbage should be enough to cheer you up.

[–]dirtydog113 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Mate....red pill rage.Had it .. at the end of it ..starting to feel the indifference and not give a fuck . 23 years in a LTR...two awesome boys..red pill rage after she cheated on me and gave me the I dont love you anymore ...then found out she had being doing the fakebook/DM cheating scam with some alcoholic douchebag....best thing I heard from someone ....the parasite has found a new host....now I just laugh and do whatever the fuck I want .

[–]martyfunkhauser_ 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It happens to us all man, we all get got. But hey, thats how we learn. Welcome to the other side!

[–]Wraith29 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wraith cloaking system...online.