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My wife (self.confessions)

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My wife and I have 2 kids together. We loved each other a lot. One day she went up north (Scotland) with her best friend. We were talking every night on face time with the kids. She came back pregnant with another man's baby 5 weeks later. I was fuming with her and stormed out the house and took the kids with me to my brother's house. We stayed there for 2 days and then returned home. She was there and told me she was so sorry and begged me for forgiveness. I said that I will allow her to stay at the house with me and the kids and that I would even help bring up the baby once he or she was born , but I told her I would never forgive her and that I'm only doing this for our kids and her baby, which isn't its fault. We agreed to stay married but we sleep in separate beds. One night I went to my friends house (girl) and we had protected sex. I'm really charmed by this girl and I've grown romantically attracted to her a lot. She is single but has 1 kid of her own. I've taken her kid out with my kids a few times now. I'm really into this woman and I'm glad I've found some happiness once again.

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[–]reason_found_decoy 17 ポイント18 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Hey. I'd like to put in my two cents here. I think your mentality is tainted. At this point, it's either you and your wife have an open relationship OR you divorce her. In my own personal opinion, your spouse cheated on you and you have every single right to leave her. It doesn't matter if there's a baby involved or not, that's her problem. Divorce your wife, she didn't hold up with her marriage vows.

[–]Mainiga 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (0子コメント)

open relationship OR you divorce her This is what I think OP should consider doing. Otherwise it seems like it'll get messy.

[–]Hippydippy420 7 ポイント8 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Last I knew, "doing it for the kids" never works. End it now, the longer you go on, the more you'll resent her and no one will feel the pain of it all more than your kids.

[–]JOHANNES_BRAHMS 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Don't rush into things with this new woman. You might be suffering from New Relationship Energy...do you really want to enter another complicated family+kids situation?

[–]Longryder 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Kick that trash to the curb, and find happiness elsewhere. Good luck.

[–]drkn8t 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Why are people like this getting married?

[–]UselessGadget 10 ポイント11 ポイント  (0子コメント)

When you say "like this" what is "this" exactly?

Seems pretty normal to me. You wouldn't get married to them if you knew the person was going to do something like that.

[–]Morophin3 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Why would you do this?

[–]pigs_have_flown 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Your kids will be better off with separated parents.

I feel that I have room to say this because although my parents were friendly and got along well, they never loved each other the way married people should and I never saw that until after they divorced and found other people. Whether they realize it consciously or not your kids will eventually pick up on the fact that you and your wife shouldn't be together, and it will confuse and affect them worse than it would if you were separated.

[–]Peedersukablyat -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

LISTEN HERE...do not go for the other chick. This is what you gotta do. Monogamy is bullshit and the fact that couples lie to each other about not wanting to sleep with other people is bullshit. You need to get over the self pity bullshit and the self destruction because of sexual temptations. ITS JUST SEX. You guys have children for fucks sake. Decide together that you want to bang other people and do that together. Start banging chicks, let her see dude, who cares. It's sex. Just have clear boundaries and keep it strictly sexual. But don't ruin each other's lives and your kids lives because you can't handle your sexuality.