This truth pill is very hard to swallow, it is hard to internalize, especially, amongst young men and those in their teens. I write this to tell the young men of today why it is a waste of time and a drain of intellectual potentials to commit to a woman. Even as I'm a young man myself, I used to be a victim of the mass delusion that "women are very gentle"; "women are weak"; "women are morally superior"; etc. I thought women could love better than men, reason of which they were automatically given full custody of the children after a divorce. I used to trust women more than men...until...the illusory fog was lifted—until reality showed me how cold and cruel it is: that ALL that I knew about women were falsehoods dressed as truths.

I'm more of an observer—and modestly speaking, a good one at that. I've never lived a relationship with a woman before but even that, I know a lot about dating and relationships just through observations.

These are a few observations I made about both genders' attitudes towards love:

1. Women initially pretend to love a man—a facade that they so perfectly affect, that not only get ANY man fully smitten and deceived, but also lure the man to naively invest his FULL trust in her. This brings to mind, the wileful nature of fairytale mermaids who are so outwardly stunning, and would deliberately swim to the open to sing beautifully with their slender arms gracefully and teasingly brushing through their silky hair; doing this would not only drive the sailors crazily with infatuation but forcibly cause them to gravitate towards them...which eventually leads to their seaside fall. This is the exact nature of feminine love: to pretend; to lure; and to destroy. The feminine soul always marauds, seeking a masculine soul to devour, mercilessly.

2. Women have almost no grasp of romance. They mistakenly understand it to only mean "The man buying her flowers and gifts, and taking her on dates under her self-centred dictates and arrangements (as against mutual preferences arising out of a soul-deep love for each other)." So for women, romance means: "all about the woman," or "all about HER happiness, alone." It is no surprise all PROPER, romance literary works were the creations of masculine minds. Men almost always compromise their happiness and ideals just to make their women or girlfriends happy and satisfied—it is NEVER the opposite way round. All around me all I mostly see is men selflessly (there are exceptions to this though) spending on their women, tolerating all their (seriously speaking) insufferable whinings, vacuous talks and ingratitudes; these men still choose to see beyond these intolerable acts and strive to realize an appeasement. Seriously, in NO other universe or even alternate world is this allowed or even tolerated.

3. A woman's love (whether true or lustful) is always based on something (conditional). To be fair with this point, men can as well sometimes be conditional with their love, but this is only the case when what they feel for the woman is actually mere lust and not true love. If a man GENUINELY loves a woman, it is UNCONDITIONAL: he'd do nearly everything to have her, to keep her happy. This isn't the case for a woman who only cares about her interests and needs, firstly; and would most of the time not compromise any of them, and even if she does, it'd be under some conditions. In my observational experiences, whenever I see something that looks as a woman being "madly in love" with a man, it'd be primarily because of something the man has or possesses, such as wealth, power, intellect, status, etc. that the woman wishes to enjoy with the man and share it with him. For a man, it may be because of her looks but this silly to say because I oftentimes see men (some, even comparably more good-looking) being in serious relationships with outrightly ugly and obese women but hardly do I see a good-looking or even average-looking woman dating an ugly-looking man, not when when the man has something else to offer in order to overcompensate for their lack and poverty in good looks.

4. Mostly in relationships, the man contributes far more than the woman just so to see the relationship work. The woman always has other options (and she knows this) and doesn't really care if the relationship at all works. Her only contribution is her sexuality—which isn't fair because the man also has his own (sexuality) as well to give. The woman has this socially-ingrained, secret conception that it is her sexuality that most matters and is most valued, and therefore abuses this ill knowledge to get or rather, manipulate the man to do every other work there is to be done to make the relationship work. The man would buy her a car...build her a house...sponsor her in school...what for? To make her happy, so his relationship with her works. I rarely ever in real life see a woman strive to sustain a relationship (not implying this may not exist) except in those lies-laden and at odds-with-reality movies.

5. This may sound quite disputable but men (can) love children better than women. Most (I say this out of pattern reading of the feminine temperament, I may be wrong here) women use their children as a tool to enslave the man. Some women use their children as utilities to swindle resources and money out of the man, once again, for her own selfish benefits. Some can fake real love for their children so long as this keeps bringing home money and gifts.

6. Every woman always harbors feelings of jealousy: to have what is sometimes not even hers. It is this trait in women that inspires a constant feeling of dissatisfaction in them and an intense craving for more. You can NEVER satisfy her needs; you can only provide. And even all your provisions will still fail to buy her "love" (that is, if she even has any). This perpetual need for more drive women materially-addicted, and unable to stay attached to a single man. She'd jump on to whoever is ready to provide for her...wants, not even her needs. They base their desires and even their decisions on the grand, feminine groupthink.

It's not worth a second focusing on or engaging with creatures incapable of something as necessary and delicate as love. All the Disney world lies and fairytale deceptions are attempts to inspire dangerous hopes in men of something that will never possibly even happen: a woman genuinely loving a man. It's hard to face this disillusionment but the earlier one does, the better—to avoid the perils that can consequently ensue.