Before knowing the truth about female nature, I never understand why being a nice guy never get me a nice girl. I believe that what you get is what you give when it comes to life. I used to resent myself for being nice with girls.

After seeing all the truth about female nature, I realized that there is no such thing as a nice girl that is equivalent to a nice guy. I've never seen a girl who gives her boyfriend equal to or more than what her boyfriend gives her.

So when I was a nice guy, I was really getting the nice things that I just didn't know. Here are a few things I can appreciate now:

1. The truth about female nature. Had I been in a relationship, I would not have found out sooner because I would be subject to the usual gynocentric norms of the Western society.
2. Freedom
3. Sanity by not having to argue/talk with women
4. Time and Money saved by not spending them on depreciating assets (women).
5. Hobby

These things are not obvious to many men before they get into relationships. When most men get a very attractive girlfriend, they don't know the price they are really paying.

It's not bad to be a nice guy because it is the most effective method to keep women away. Keeping women away is one of the nicest things a man can do for himself.