Before knowing the truth about female nature, I never understand why being a nice guy never get me a nice girl. I believe that what you get is what you give when it comes to life. I used to resent myself for being nice with girls.
After seeing all the truth about female nature, I realized that there is no such thing as a nice girl that is equivalent to a nice guy. I've never seen a girl who gives her boyfriend equal to or more than what her boyfriend gives her.
So when I was a nice guy, I was really getting the nice things that I just didn't know. Here are a few things I can appreciate now:
- The truth about female nature. Had I been in a relationship, I would not have found out sooner because I would be subject to the usual gynocentric norms of the Western society.
- Freedom
- Sanity by not having to argue/talk with women
- Time and Money saved by not spending them on depreciating assets (women).
- Hobby
These things are not obvious to many men before they get into relationships. When most men get a very attractive girlfriend, they don't know the price they are really paying.
It's not bad to be a nice guy because it is the most effective method to keep women away. Keeping women away is one of the nicest things a man can do for himself.
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