This is a great assessment of our sub for us to neatly see how outside subs perceive us. This post accurately represents the views of a few of our most angry posters. It doesn't even come close to a sub consensus of actual posters's views on things that matter.

"...we basically believe that there's no place in Western society for Asian men." - Hyperbolic. What this should say is that we believe "the dynamics of being Asian in the western world are gendered with Asian men being more disadvantaged (and not only in dating), and this is a problem usually dismissed".

"White women don't want them" - dating wise, yes, mostly true.

"asian women dont want them" - false. We are well aware that about half of Asian American women marry Asian men.

"they're destined to die as virgins." - lol

"a lot of crossover with /r/theredpill" - Among our few most hardline posters, yes. Most agree with some red pill points that really should be obvious to anyone who has ever looked at society with half a brain and reject or ignore most of the rest. We don't subscribe to TRP-esque evo psych/caveman theories - we think that cultural and historical reasons are the biggest reasons why Asian men are disadvantaged and uniquely face discrimination from women of their own race. In fact, our detractors often espouse some of the worst pseudo evo-psych type "theories" ever so they can legitimize any dating preference as self-justifying because you don't remember choosing who you were attracted to and it seems like it just happened, so this has to mean that genes made me do it...right?!? The magical "genes" excuse is too often abused by groups and people who feel efforts to change things might be inconvenient.

Regarding the paragraphs on hapas: A large minority of Asian women are very vocal about their dislike of Asian men (invariably, how much they love white men), and this almost invariably implies an obsession with having whiter kids. We also found that many white men who love Asian women are red pill, anti-feminist, anti-immigrant, pro-Trump types who often say racist things toward Asian men, blacks, muslims, the list goes on. The "I cant be racist, my wife is Asian" trope is becoming a running joke on the sub. This sort of gendered racism has its roots in American media going back decades. Lurkers will think (correctly) that we focus on cases that don't represent the majority. But we think that the same socio-cultural/historical factors that give rise to the prevalence of white male/asian female couples are also responsible for the dysfunctional ones as well working to the detriment of Asian men. Their existence statistically reinforces the same racial hierarchy along the same gendered lines, and we don't buy that this discrepancy is due to chance.

The vast majority of us don't think we are fucked in life because we are hapa, although I will say that most of us think it comes with baggage that we'd rather avoid. Many of us don't know any other hapas in real life and many of our younger posters feel lost. The sub is our way of having a voice because too often we have "hapa mommas" making shitty blogs online writing our narrative for us. We tend to get under people's skin, and unfairly when some posters roast couples that don't deserve, although honestly most aren't worth defending. Where you people might see an asian woman talking about how much she wants half white babies as innocuous or easy pussy, we see a problem.