I honestly forgot that I had EVER thought like some of these guys. It seems SO crazy now but made perfect sense back then. I probably could have been ANY one of these guys.

• One guy literally said, "(I can't get over it) 8 years later I am here crying in a chair."
• Another guy said he wants her to come back to him because even though 3 months after being discovered the affair is still going on, he "knows" her and this is "out of character" and "not what she really wants"
• One guy doesn't want to split with her because he would feel bad for assassinating her character by saying that the divorce is happening because she is pregnant with another man's kid who DOESN"T want her.

Truly insane.

They even have their own little lingo for getting through this stuff. I went to IC (independent counseling) and we went to CC (couples counseling) together blah blah blah. lol.... after they get stabbed in the balls AND the heart, they then spend time paying people to help them fall in love again AND FURTHER waste time on reddit talking about it.