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Alpha Valentine's Day Gift? (self.askMRP)

Murphbah が 投稿

So I'm not married, but in a 3 year long LTR.

Question is, do you bend TRP principles for Valentine's Day and just get cute as fuck/beta with your woman, or is there such thing as an "alpha" gift/activity that will make her happy and more importantly soak her panties?

Thanks boys

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[–]Gallbladder_Summoner 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

  1. Cut a hole in a box.
  2. Put your junk in the box.
  3. Have her open the box.

That's the way you do it.

[–]drty_pr 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Wife says "all I want you to get me for valentine's day is an orchid". Seems a little presumptuous to me. I'm gonna go with no. Then when she drops a shit test on me about not getting her one, I'll say "baby our back yard is too small for that many apple trees".

[–]WesternhagenWinner 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

The name orchid is derived from the Greek word “orkhis”. This exotic flower was named by an ancient Greek botanist named Theophrastos who thought that the fleshy underground tubers resembled the male anatomy.

"I got your orchid right here, baby..."

[–]alphabeta49Red Beret 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Was wondering where you were going with that.

[–]rocknrollchuck 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

My wife gets the same Valentines Day gift every year - my DICK.

[–]TheFamilyAlphaPro-Masculine Evangelist 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Get her what you want to get her.

Not what society said get her

Not what you feel you're expected to get her.

Know her tatses & work with that.

[–]addictedtoyourface 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

and more importantly soak her panties

This is what we call a covert contract.

If you want to get her a gift because it makes you happy, cool. If you want to get her a gift because you want her to have sex with you......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................side bar.

[–]The_Litz 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Flowers, definitely expensive flowers.

Then leave the house and come back when Chad tells you to.

[–]Murphbah[S] 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Hahaha god damnit the passive aggressiveness is real, I gotta get my shit together.

She's getting skittles and a good old fashioned dickin' for Valentine's Day, it's settled.

[–]stonepimpletilistsMod / Red Beret 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Last year for me.

Skittles and laser tag

[–]SampsonBrass 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Buy her one of those look alike dolls since she apparently wants to be one.

What are you doing man? Instead of thinking about gifts for her you ought to be thinking about gifts to yourself. Is she worth keeping around if you're basically in the sahara already after only 3 years?

[–]Murphbah[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm far from the sahara brother, but I see what you're saying. I'm not going to buy her anything fancy, I will take her out though because I want to.

[–]GargantuaBlarg29Red Beret 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What do you want to do, that involves elements that would make a nice evening for her...but also elements that would push her out of her comfort zone.

The goal isn't really to soak her panties. The day is an excuse to push her into being that cool person you want doing cool shit with you.

[–]Murphbah[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's what I was looking for. Should've known. Thanks

[–]RedPillRisingFromAsh 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

My wife's been a cunt and that's half the reason I'm here at mrp. The other half is I've been a faggot. That being said I still think she's a cunt so no gift. Just a smile and a happy valentines.

[–]RelapsedBeta 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Give your wife the Ibrahimovic.

[–]All_Ads_Deceive 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Don't ever get cute as fuck/beta. Buy her lingerie.

[–]TheFilthyPapist 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Never buy her lingerie. https://therationalmale.com/2014/02/17/the-gift/

[–]WesternhagenWinner 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

"When you buy it for her it’s contrived and it is overt and overt is often the kiss of death for a try-hard guy." -- can confirm!

[–]DonaldBaelish 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Dont buy gifts to soak panties, lad.

[–]innominating 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Get her what you want to give her with no covert contracts. Don't give her skittles because you read that is the alpha thing to do and disregarded that the example given wasn't even an LTR.

[–]JDRoedell 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wife and I will be international on anniversary trip during Vday this year. I ain't getting or saying shit. Most I would consider anymore under normal circumstances would be a dinner somewhere I enjoy. I also hate cards. Always have. And get off my lawn

[–]470_2_700_nm 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Your... dick.

[–]InvincibleKraken 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Check out AlphaAmazon dot com for ideas.

[–]ReddJive -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Be a skittles man

[–]Murphbah[S] -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Was thinking about that, good call

[–]Mecha75 -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I am done buying crap for my wife of 16+ years. They collects dust, are expensive, and never loosened her vice like legs. This year, I took the week off. I am giving her one of those days to spend with me.

[–]Murphbah[S] -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (4子コメント)

I like this idea, but could you explain how she will actually get turned on by this?

I'm sure it's a principle in the RP readings somewhere, but will this just peak an emotion of disappointment in her so strong that she'll think I place no value on her and want sex to seek validation?

Elaborate sir

[–]alphabeta49Red Beret 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (3子コメント)

When you reply to someone, use the "reply" button right under their own comment. Don't reply in the box under your post. We don't know who you're responding to when you comment.

Also...

I like this idea, but could you explain how she will actually get turned on by this?

Can you not get gifts for your wife in order to turn her on? In fact, can you do it without expecting appreciation at all?

[–]Murphbah[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yeah this works way better, and I'd answer that question if I didn't fuck up and knew who I was asking. Fuck.

[–]alphabeta49Red Beret 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Then just answer me

[–]Murphbah[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

To answer your question yes I can do it without expecting anything, and that's the game plan.