i will chose to fight with words over violence every day
They you will lose because the sword is mightier than the pen. If you're an undocumented immigrant and the secret police comes into your house ordering you to self-deport, you won't be able to argue "it's not self-deportation if I'm being coerced" when they grab you by the throat.
Fascists yearn for a society where debate is shut down, if they win, your precious logic and rationality will get you nowhere, so long as they see you "unfit" for their society, your word is worthless. So anti fascists turn that back on them. If you're defending a society where my word is worthless, then your word is worthless.
FRANK FRISON, HOLOCAUST SURVIVOR:
“If fascism could be defeated in debate, I assure you that it would never have happened, neither in Germany, nor in Italy, nor anywhere else.”
ADOLF HITLER:
“Only one thing could have stopped our movement - if our adversaries had understood its principle and from the first day smashed with the utmost brutality the nucleus of our new movement.”