Here's a thought. I had been living in a small size town, since it's in central Europe, it was nice to have met another English speaker.

He's what you all refer to as a blue piller. i.e: Wife and a child, officer worker, car and an apartment.

I can't say he was ever my best friend, actually I noticed he would gossip a lot when I first met him and distrusted him because of this, but over time we were developing a friendship or so I thought.

Well I moved, and since I've moved he's been ignoring me.

At first I thought he was just busy because he claimed to be, but it's clear now he's simply not interested in talking to me.

My initial reaction was hurt. Also I guess self blame because when I do give people some trust, it's always the same old shit - this exact thing -> finding out their hidden agendas / shallowness etc.

But now this got me thinking. You know what fuck this guy.

I didn't do anything bad to him. I was good enough to be his friend while I was living in that town. Good enough to keep him company etc. Fuck people like this who use you, then dump you because you simply are not convenient anymore.

These people are utterly selfish, and go through life only thinking of themselves.

That and in general don't put any trust at all into making friends with married people, you're nothing more than a side show in their life.

I was thinking of saying something or texting but what would that help or prove. Not very much, so cleanly erased all contact details from my phone, messaging etc. And if he ever comes on the scene again will just ignore.

Anyone had this happen to them?