they'll just see your detachment as "red-pill" Chat type shit and want you more and bother you more. just don't even talk to them. let them text you 20 times in a row (which they will). Ever since going full MGTOW since finding this forum i sometimes spout off MGTOW type shit to girls i know or who like me, they can't leave me alone after that. I guess i see the "red-pill" guy angle, but it just bugs me, I don't want them in my life.