I wanted to share a story. 5 years ago, I was broke. I had no real career aspects. I also was pretty awkward looking, late bloomer I guess.

3 Years ago I changed careers and started making some serious money (over 100k a year). Improved my looks, improved my mind, traveled, became over-all a better guy.

2 Years ago I got in a relationship with a woman that had a bit more extreme issues than the average one maybe. Although, that didn't come out until later. I remember thinking to myself, damn I have made so much progress in live and now I have a hot girl who can't get enough of my dick. I've made it.

She wanted to get married and have kids eventually, I was the "only one" for her. I thought, well I earned it. Look at where I am and have to offer her, it all adds up! I was clearly the best guy she's dated (on paper this was probably true)

It didn't take long for me to notice, though, the compounding deficiencies that I had. Or, at least she started to find. It was only a matter of time until the fights started up about my lack of x y or z. Maybe it was because she felt "I wasn't committed enough" one day. The next week maybe it was my apartment was too messy (the one she lived at for free and didn't do shit to help out with). Then maybe it was her own issues, such as her having not enough friends = my fault. Then she would blame me for "keeping her in a bubble" away from friends. Which was not true, I just told her not to hang out with dudes actively trying to fuck her. But you get the jist. She would go "jam" with these musician guys, which we all know what that is about.

Eventually, she started going on dating sites behind my back. Flirting with other dudes on FB. Many of these dudes were losers or broke. But if they were a musician then that was her "in", to want to talk to these guys. She was always "looking" whether it was covertly or not. It was a bit of a shock to realize, where I am at, what I've got to offer and she was STILL actively looking behind my back while using me as her comfort blanket in case she didn't find anyone better. (all while pretending she was 100% dedicated to me, while living in my luxury condo for free, while going on trips with me, even while telling me she loves me she was in the middle of typing messages to dudes on Tinder (I found out later obvs). She would even tell these Tinder guys she has a "room mate". Not that she was living for free with her boyfriend.

It wasn't until after one of our major breakups that I realize how serious hypergamy is. She escalated from using Tinder and other shit behind my back to using "Sugar Daddy" websites. Why fuck me, the guy who makes 100+k a year (albeit a real dude), when you can sell your pussy straight up for 5k a month and not have to be a good person in return like in a relationship.

It made me realize, that all the effort I put in myself to be "The best man", I never can be thanks to Hypergamy. There is no interest in "ME" just her imperative and if I can fulfil that. There will always be men that can fulfill it more (money, status) for an attractive woman with a profile on Tinder, Facebook, Sugar Daddy sites, and is willing to sell their cooch.

All of this stuff I learned after the fact. But do you want to know how it all ended? Her going into rages about not being able to control me and get away with all the things she was doing. It ended up with her assaulting me several times, her getting arrested (the first time a day after taking her on a 2,000 dollar trip, because at a party she wasn't getting enough attention from other guys because they were talking to me about guy shit), destroying my property, trying to get my dog to run away, and finally ending up in jail for a few months. And to boot- me taking anger management classes for the next 6 months because of a false DV charge (She hit herself when she knew the cops were coming to arrest her). All because of extreme desire for control and hypergamy. Could of just been a decent human being and would of had it made.