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[–]wildfireboat 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

How do you know it's yours?

[–]littledodgymaybe[S] 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't. I don't even know if she's pregnant for sure. Sorry I'm being fucking irrational right now, the suicide is more of a contingency plan.

[–]belhaj7 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (3子コメント)

I heard someone post about the same thing and what he did.

He acted to her as if he was really happy with becoming a father. Basically, act like you want to have a child. The woman wants control over you. So if you lose your ground cause she is pregnant, she will keep the child. If she can't control you she will have an abortion.

You can also say did you know that women who take one abortion in their lives live longer and happier. Just use some illogical excuse as to why an abortion is good. If it works with feminism it will work for you. Make sure you reference a female you know.

However, I'm not 100% sure.

I think an older mgtow can help you better in this case. I feel sorry for you man.

Luckily she's said she'll get an abortion, I insisted on going with her to 'support' her but she's refused.

This is a two-edged sword. She either can be pregnant and doesn't want to let you know that she wants to keep it. Or she isn't pregnant and lies. I hope it's the second one.

How did you get her pregnant btw? In this subreddit, we say many times don't believe a woman who is on birth control.

Your first step:

Don't under any circumstance tell her who you are or where you live. Tell her you live in a different city. That's your first step. The danger here is having to pay child support. Cut off social media immediately. When she really is pregnant by your child you got some work to do. There is then still 9 months to do something.

Your last resort is a DNA test. Play that card when everything fails.

[–]littledodgymaybe[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Thanks for the reply man I really appreciate it. It's all my doing I know it, I should have listened to you guys in the first place.

I really hope it's the second one too, her female friend even warned me she gets very attached and she's clearly got a problem mentally.

I've had sex many times just using the pullout method, even when they weren't on the pill (young dumb and full of...) so I thought I'd be fine. It could be that I'm totally right but the lack of control is totally fucking me right now. Like how can it be this bad for men?

She already has my name, I should have used a fake like I usually do but I was really fucking drunk, I know it's pathetic and it's all my fault but I really wish I'd listened to you guys sooner. Thank you mate, if it's mine and she doesn't get it done even though she's said she would and it pops out as mine then I'll just kill myself. I can't believe for 20 minutes of fun my life can just be over. Thank you again bud.

[–]belhaj7 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Bro.

First thing I want to ask is why would you do the pullout method? I have never had sex with a woman(21 years old). So I think it feels better. You needed to consider the risk you are taking when she gets pregnant.

I've had sex many times just using the pullout method

You should had the thought that at least one time it can fail. I don't know if you came inside her.

But it's done now and you have learned from it so we move on.

Next time when you are in a relationship(in your case it was a one night stand) and the woman says she is on birth control you better see her taking that pill every single day in front of you.

She already has my name, I should have used a fake like I usually do but I was really fucking drunk, I know it's pathetic and it's all my fault but I really wish I'd listened to you guys sooner.

I don't know if you can make a false rape accusation that she raped you. I can't see what would happen in the future. But I know one thing and that is we live in a gynocentric society. So the chances are slim that you would win.

There is also a possibility that she has sperm jacked you. I'm not sure. You are the one that should find out if you made her pregnant or not. I can't do it for you unfortunately.

if it's mine and she doesn't get it done even though she's said she would and it pops out as mine then I'll just kill myself.

Please, don't kill yourself bro. Kill her instead lol.

Does she know where you live? Do you live with your parents? Do you have a religion? And which country do you live?

[–]littledodgymaybe[S] [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I really appreciate your fucking replies man. Honestly.

I know it was my fault, the only other times without a Johnny were when I was losing my virginity. I'd run out of condoms this time and nothing was open. It was fucking stupid. If I could go back and beat the shit out of myself I would but I've got to live with this, I thought pullout would be fine combined with the pill but I was wrong. Fuck idiot that I am.

I'm in the UK. Even if the rape was true I'd be fucked anyway, it's not even about that. She's said she will go through with the abortion (she even opened with it) It's just that I have zero fucking control over the situation that's killing me right now.

Believe me this has scared me off women with the system we have in place for life. No exceptions regardless of which way this goes. Not sure if I made it clear enough in my OP. I don't know if she's pregnant, I certainly don't know if it's mine and she's said she'd have an abortion so as far as guys go in my situation I'm fucking lucky but I'm still in a horrible fucking situation.

I don't want to kill myself, I really don't, I've worked too hard to be where I am which isn't even that far compared to what could be in front of me. But if this all goes wrong for me, ie it's mine and she changes her mind about abortion then it's best for the baby if I go. My dad is a great man and very wealthy at that, he'd take care of it in absence of me.

Sorry I've started crying. I don't want to die, but worst case scenario it's what I'll do.

[–]littledodgymaybe[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Lurkers who have down voted me (only one so far) you can if you want, I fully admit it's all my fault but please any compassion right now will go so far with me. I'm losing my fucking mind.

[–]Folwart [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

I do not get the point of fucking if you are going to pull out. Not pulling out is the only thing that makes it potentially on par with rubbing it out myself. My answer? I just don't bother fuckin', the juice ain't worth the squeeze. Hopefully for you it is some other prick's spawn and you can just learn a lesson.