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Pregnant one-night stand (self.MGTOW)

littledodgymaybe が 投稿

Hey gents,

I'm a little hammered right now but I really need an outlet and I can't tell anyone. I'm semi-recently 20 which in the UK means I can totally fuck up my life already which it appears I've already managed to do.

I met some chick who found me funny at a bar and slept with her, we ended up sleeping together after she told me she was on the pill, so I used the pill out method which I know what fucking retarded of me but I'm fucking retarded.

Anyway she just told me she's pregnant, I don't know if I can believe her as shed allegedly just got out of a relationship by the time we hooked up and the pullout method has served me before.

Luckily she's said she'll get an abortion, I insisted on going with her to 'support' her but she's refused. I'm not sure if this is just a cry for attention and it's all bullshit (she's turned up outside my door before uninvited).

Either way I feel completely fucking helpless right now, I'm not ready for any of this and there's fucking nothing I can fucking do about it.

I know this is all my fault guys. I've been lurking here for a couple of years now (I delete accounts regularly), but please have mercy or some advice or just some kind words. I didn't realise how right you were, this is fucking unbearable.

From now on MGTOW all the way I swear it. I went to two separate shops on the way home to buy enough aspirin (I'm allergic anyway so if I OD it should be a finishing move) for an emergency case scenario and I'm liquor red the fuck up but I just need someone to talk to right now.

Sorry for rambling and if I'm incoherent I'm just trying to liquor myself through this.

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[–]wildfireboat 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

How do you know it's yours?

[–]littledodgymaybe[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't. I don't even know if she's pregnant for sure. Sorry I'm being fucking irrational right now, the suicide is more of a contingency plan.

[–]belhaj7 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (2子コメント)

I heard someone post about the same thing and what he did.

He acted to her as if he was really happy with becoming a father. Basically, act like you want to have a child. The woman wants control over you. So if you lose your ground cause she is pregnant, she will keep the child. If she can't control you she will have an abortion.

You can also say did you know that women who take one abortion in their lives live longer and happier. Just use some illogical excuse as to why an abortion is good. If it works with feminism it will work for you. Make sure you reference a female you know.

However, I'm not 100% sure.

I think an older mgtow can help you better in this case. I feel sorry for you man.

Luckily she's said she'll get an abortion, I insisted on going with her to 'support' her but she's refused.

This is a two-edged sword. She either can be pregnant and doesn't want to let you know that she wants to keep it. Or she isn't pregnant and lies. I hope it's the second one.

How did you get her pregnant btw? In this subreddit, we say many times don't believe a woman who is on birth control.

Your first step:

Don't under any circumstance tell her who you are or where you live. Tell her you live in a different city. That's your first step. The danger here is having to pay child support. Cut off social media immediately. When she really is pregnant by your child you got some work to do. There is then still 9 months to do something.

Your last resort is a DNA test. Play that card when everything fails.

[–]littledodgymaybe[S] 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Thanks for the reply man I really appreciate it. It's all my doing I know it, I should have listened to you guys in the first place.

I really hope it's the second one too, her female friend even warned me she gets very attached and she's clearly got a problem mentally.

I've had sex many times just using the pullout method, even when they weren't on the pill (young dumb and full of...) so I thought I'd be fine. It could be that I'm totally right but the lack of control is totally fucking me right now. Like how can it be this bad for men?

She already has my name, I should have used a fake like I usually do but I was really fucking drunk, I know it's pathetic and it's all my fault but I really wish I'd listened to you guys sooner. Thank you mate, if it's mine and she doesn't get it done even though she's said she would and it pops out as mine then I'll just kill myself. I can't believe for 20 minutes of fun my life can just be over. Thank you again bud.

[–]belhaj7 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Bro.

First thing I want to ask is why would you do the pullout method? I have never had sex with a woman(21 years old). So I think it feels better. You needed to consider the risk you are taking when she gets pregnant.

I've had sex many times just using the pullout method

You should had the thought that at least one time it can fail. I don't know if you came inside her.

But it's done now and you have learned from it so we move on.

Next time when you are in a relationship(in your case it was a one night stand) and the woman says she is on birth control you better see her taking that pill every single day in front of you.

She already has my name, I should have used a fake like I usually do but I was really fucking drunk, I know it's pathetic and it's all my fault but I really wish I'd listened to you guys sooner.

I don't know if you can make a false rape accusation that she raped you. I can't see what would happen in the future. But I know one thing and that is we live in a gynocentric society. So the chances are slim that you would win.

There is also a possibility that she has sperm jacked you. I'm not sure. You are the one that should find out if you made her pregnant or not. I can't do it for you unfortunately.

if it's mine and she doesn't get it done even though she's said she would and it pops out as mine then I'll just kill myself.

Please, don't kill yourself bro. Kill her instead lol.

Does she know where you live? Do you live with your parents? Do you have a religion? And which country do you live?

[–]littledodgymaybe[S] 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Lurkers who have down voted me (only one so far) you can if you want, I fully admit it's all my fault but please any compassion right now will go so far with me. I'm losing my fucking mind.