I gave a bunch of prescription pills, she dropped one of it somewhere.

'did you really check it before you left the pharmacy?' 'check inside the car' 'omg. you can't go now? it's too late, i have to eat now'

I never said a word. Checked in the car and got back a new strip of pills and remained mute.

Later the next morning: 'omg i found the pill in the car parking. Only if you cared to look for it you would have saved a trip to the pharmacy'.

This incident from the past is a trifle, but i find that woman play it the same way for everything. Zero sense of guilt. They only need to find someone/something to blame, than owning up to their mistake.

Thinking again, they are programmed to be manipulative. So pointing it out isn't going to help your cause. It's their bread and butter.

This is where Chad (apparently) wins - they try to beat them in their own game- lying, deceit and manipulation. This keeps them interested/mystified, while the predictably faithful/straightforward bf/husband seems boring.

And this is why i will keep refusing to play the game. Shame me, abuse me, call me a no life. Do whatever you want.

Self-respect. Nothing else matters.