Notice the pattern:

http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10504582/unsupportive-partners-spouses

"I am trying soooo hard but he brings home candy he is making me fail!!"

Instead of, you know, just saying no to candy.

Or, "He's not supportive enough"

Instead of, you know, self reliance.

Literally only two people in the entire thread said anything about taking responsibility for your actions, and they are both men.

This is a pattern I see in ALL WOMEN when it comes to ANY sort of hard work or dedication. Instantly blame MEN. If they weren't married they'd be blaming the patriarchy. And that is the REAL reason HAES and fat acceptance movements came to be.... scapegoats for wimmin.