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HELP! I need some advice! (self.MGTOW)

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Hello MGTOW community.

So to begin the new year, I have decided to become a MGTOW. By the way, I am an 18 year old virgin who has never had a girlfriend in his life. I decided to become a MGTOW mainly because I feel like I am being oppressed by women (but not all) in my age group and generation. I also have seen people that are far wiser and have more experiences with women and how they may not be suitable to be with long term. The crazy thing is that before becoming Mgtow I was seeking a LTR and I couldn't find one and I would get depressed because I couldn't get it. I also have seen YouTube content creators such as Sandman or MGTOW 101 and although I don't agree with all of their beliefs I think they make some very valid points. Their content has literally made me remove getting married from being a goal of mine for the future. I made a vow that I would be a MGTOW and probably just barely seek casual sex.

However, I have been running through some issues in this road. Last week, a girl from one of my classes started talking to me. After a lot of conversation we have a lot in common. Eventually, I was able to get her number and we have been chatting and FaceTiming a lot through the iPhone. The crazy thing is that she keeps sending me pictures of herself (not nudes) and I don't even ask for them. Btw to interject, I don't have any form of social media, so if she hypothetically liked me this might be a way to show it.

Anyways, I am having a few conflicted feelings. I feel as though I want to date this girl, but at the same token I feel regret for even getting her number. This biggest thing is that she keeps bragging about how guys keep asking her for nudes and that she blocks them. To me this is the biggest red flag of em all. I don't know if she is actually blocking them, because why would she talk about it so much with me. It's almost as if she takes pride in getting that attention. Another thing is that she keeps sending me videos of her doing dances and while we FaceTime she would dance in front of me, and I assume she knows I was attracted to them. This is the part where I started getting "feelings" for her and basically the little head thinks more than the big.

I also want to take her out to just hang out, not even on some "dating," shit, and she has been dismissive about it. I don't get if she likes me or if I am just a victim of a narcissistic women craving attention and possibly more from a guy like me.

My question is, what should I do? Should I pump and dump, if the possibility arises? Should I even go through the motions that might lead to that part? Should I date her?

By the way, if it doesn't work out with this girl I will resume with my MGTOW mentality. If it wasn't for her approaching me, I probably wouldn't have been at this point.

PS; if Sandman were to see this and respond, he's a fucking legend! (I doubt he will even see it though).

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[–]lie-deflector 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

In my opinion she is trying to seduce you. Or play mind games at least. I'd be careful when a woman targets you for no reason, especially if she tells you she gets lots of attention from other men.

I tend to er on the side of caution, and just not let things like that lead anywhere. A fear of mine has always been false rape accusations, which can ruin a man's life as we all know.

If you're looking on how to play the game, I recommend websites like,

Black Label Logic

And

The Rational Male

They can help you understand the woman psyche, and up your game and deal with them better.

[–]HIGHLORDOFSHITSTAINS 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Last week, a girl from one of my classes started talking to me.

This is the same as bangin' a coworker. When the "relationshit" goes south then what? Now you'd have to deal with this girl in your class. Can you move classes before datting her?

Oh to be 18 and full up on dat juice!! lol. Fuck that.

And if some chick is talking to me out of the blue.. she wants something. Stop thinking of women as "oh she's not up to something".. THEY ALWAYS ARE UP TO SOMETHING. THEY ALWAYS WANT SOMETHING.

If it's your validation, your time, your money, your penis, it's always something.

Be careful man. Do you have A's in all your classes? I'd be more worried about that or searching your soul for your passions in life. Not pussy. Go start a business or something.

Good luck brother.

[–]libradragon87 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Here are my thoughts 1) You are not special, and are only 1 out of 10+ guys who she is currently using for attention and approval/validation and she is telling them the exact same things.

2) DO NOT text or talk on the phone. Phones are for setting DEFINITE dates (if they cannot agree on the place and time to hangout - tell them never mind), in your case "hang out." If a women is truly interested she will make things extremely easy for you.

3) No dates. Hangout only. Do not bother with a situation where you will not be alone together with the opportunity for sex to happen.

4) If she doesn't make a definite date (remember, hang out only - no dates) she isn't actually interested. She wants you to be her cuck boy tampon to listen to her problems and give her attention. When you ask her to hangout at your place on x day at x time, anything other than a 100% for sure response is a no and you never ask again and don't bother talking to her anymore. "Come over this Sunday at 8pm and we'll watch a movie in my room" Use specifics and be clear...

5) If you are alone and you try to initiate anything physical there will be resistance. Ie. "omg i never do this." "i barely know you" Think 2 steps forward, 1 step backwards. Kissing, she interjects, go back to just caressing. You start touching her legs, she interjects, go back to kissing, etc. All the way to sex.... women can't possibly admit to themselves that they want sex. It has to be your fault, your idea, you seduced them, they were drunk, etc.

6) If she won't make a definite hang out, or won't have sex with you. You flat out tell her that you are not interested in being just friends with her. Then remove your attention. Move on. Never chase a women. Find one that chases you and makes it extremely easy, or don't bother, they are just wanting attention.