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I married an incel, AMA! (self.Incels)

incel_wifey が 投稿

When I met him, he was 28 and a virgin (which I didn't know at the time). Chain-smoking. Unkempt hair and beard. And hated me since he's aspy and I am NT, and I was overall way too social for his taste. We were co-workers for an tech company who would interact regularly but not frequently.

Fast-forward to today, happily married for 5 years - with a baby on the way.

Using a throwaway for obvious reasons.

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[–]broketsuu 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Some kind hearted woman comes here to tell her story about how she married and fucked an incel(one of us) and all you guys can do yell "REEEE" Seriously guys. OP I like your story and have some questions.

[–]Blumol 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (15子コメント)

So... whats going on? Who makes more money? How many relationships were you in prior to him?

[–]incel_wifey[S] 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (14子コメント)

Our salaries are basically the same. We are both engineers.

I was in 2 very serious (2+yrs) and 2 moderately serious relationships (~1yr) before him.

[–]Blumol -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (13子コメント)

So why him? What made you pick him? Does he have an inheritance?

[–]Blumol 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (7子コメント)

Wait, before I forget. Whats the reason of your previous breakups? In how many did you get dumped?

[–]2scared2neckmyself 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Chads dont earn enough to provide. The incel is now a beta provider.

[–]Blumol 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Lets not jump to conclusions, shes young, so its abit hard to say. Lets see how she answers it.

[–]penilefacialimplant 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

10 years of workcelling/suffering and his reward is a smelly cavernous roastie

[–]incel_wifey[S] 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (3子コメント)

I've been dumped once. We were in a heated argument about family BS and he ended it. He was really close to his family and I didn't like them much. Took me by surprise kinda. But it needed to be over. And it was a clean break, no hard feelings now.

The other three cheated. One of them got someone else pregnant.

[–]Blumol -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Congrats on your kid. May he grow up healthy and happy and hopefully dont turn into unwanted filth like us.

[–]Blumol -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well now I can see a much clearer picture.

Thanks.

[–]incel_wifey[S] 5 ポイント6 ポイント  (4子コメント)

There is no inheritance. Haha.

Honestly, I know this will sound cliche, but we started off as friends after we began to interact more professionally. He was under the impression that I was an idiot - all because I was very social and did spend a lot of time talking to my coworkers. But there was a project and we both were on, and I found a major bug in his code. After that we became friendly. Meaning he would say "hi" to me instead of completely ignoring me.

I wasn't aware that he liked me and at this point I had no feelings for him either. But just over time, we talked more and one day I asked him to go with me to the apple store and afterwards we got some coffee. And after that day we started to hang out regularly.

[–]broketsuu 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Hi yeah I'm an incel who doesn't know how to talk to people or emotionally connect with women I like. How was he able not to freeze up with you?

[–]Blumol -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Okay. Thats great

[–]NormiesMustPay -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

We don't care.

[–]Hairbrainer 10 ポイント11 ポイント  (2子コメント)

ITT everyone only searching for reasons why they're right, not taking the time to get to know another situation.

[–]incel_wifey[S] 11 ポイント12 ポイント  (1子コメント)

I legitimately thought I would get more serious questions...

[–]GreatLoadsOfFunNo longer incel, Still hate normies though -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (5子コメント)

How many men did you have sex with before him?

[–]incel_wifey[S] 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (4子コメント)

4

[–]chillenyo -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (6子コメント)

28 and a virgin, and now some used up whore comes along. And she wants babies and is aware her biological clock is ticking out.

Thats how it happens everytime with sub par men, as a result of the gender ratio shifting over the years of ones life. In other words, at an older age theres less men around as lots of them die.

He has no idea though, he just thinks he got better looking as he got older.

Be aware of this incels. Theres no need to get married, its her need.

[–]Chatteringchumps 31 ポイント32 ポイント  (4子コメント)

Why would you call her a whore when she's only slept with 5 people in her life. The whole point of this forum is people dying to have sex. If someone offered 5 women for you to have sex with, you'd jump at the chance.

You've just blown any chance of having a credible argument with your first sentence. Good job

[–]incel_wifey[S] 33 ポイント34 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Riiight... my biological clock was ticking at 24. Lol.

[–]Clouds93Clouds are beautiful! 20 ポイント21 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm happy for you and him, Good luck to you both, Best wishes. :)

[–]chillybot -5 ポイント-4 ポイント  (7子コメント)

Oh please, not another one of these fkin things. Girl gets dicked down regularly throughout her entire life, settles for incel. How many times do i have to read this same bullshit story.

[–]dsc4488 14 ポイント15 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Right 4 people is getting dicked down her entire life, open your eyes dude and face reality not one of you is doomed to a life all by yourselves

[–]Blumol -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (5子コメント)

I rather be alone than settle for being number 5.

[–]grumpy_snail 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Well congrats because with that mentality, you will die alone.

[–]Blumol -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Who gives a crap? Beats working hard to make a name for yourself to only end up picking up the scraps.

Why must I be the one to settle for second best after she's had her fun? Have I murdered or sinned so much more than others that I need to be 2nd or fifth place?

What gives others the superiority to get a virgin partner of choice while I have to slog till im in my late 20s or thirties to pick up whats left or some woman who's had her fun and wants to find some random bloke to settle with?

Is my life really that meaningless or is my existence so degraded that I have to end up with such shit?

[–]dsc4488 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (2子コメント)

So you'd rather be alone and miserable than a chance at happiness and a family just because of some stupid phobia of a woman's number

[–]Blumol -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

And its not a stupid phobia. I just happen to choose dignity over settling. Dying is more honourable than being a fifth choice piece of shit.

[–]Blumol -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Happiness of what, exactly? Being the beta? Picking up the pieces and being the salvation army after shes had her fun?

Just because im not good looking or rich doesnt mean I dont deserve to have an equal?

[–]PePeTheFrogI hate incels who disagree with me but I hate normies even more 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Just more proof that incels with good educations and careers aren't incels at all.

[–]PM_ME_STRIPPERScreepy tall socially awkward KHV - Freakshow cel, facebodycel -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Sooo, your point?

[–]chillenyo -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Sleep around then settle with the virgin as your biological clock ticks out

[–]irrelevantincel -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuure

get off my board please

[–]AllahWillinginvoluntary celibate 😃🔫 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (11子コメント)

We have thousands of throwaway accounts trolling us with this very style. How are we supposed to believe you? Provide us with something at the very least.

[–]kevin32 -3 ポイント-2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Why would someone use a throwaway to say they're married to an incel?

[–]incel_wifey[S] 8 ポイント9 ポイント  (3子コメント)

Definitely not a troll. But I wont share anything that would identify him or I.

After we dated for a while, I helped him officially get diagnosed as aspy. And we worked to understand eachother better. We are still working on it. I am not trying to make it seem like everything changed with the snap of my fingers.

Just trying to give a different point of view.

[–]CheesyFedoraWomen deserve to suffer. Death is not enough. 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (4子コメント)

This. Posts like this are obvious trolls. They are just making posts like this so they can claim that we are only incel because of our personality and not our genetics so they can shit on us more.

[–]womenoutoftech -1 ポイント0 ポイント  (0子コメント)

she said somewhere else in the thread that her husband is not ugly. she married an antisocial chad not an incel.

He is not genetically ugly. But I feel like he used to make himself "ugly" with the crazy hair and unkempt beard shaggy clothes, ratty shoes.

[–]AllahWillinginvoluntary celibate 😃🔫 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I really doubt her story is true. Here we go by research, and through research, we know that the chances of a "truecel" to find love is statistically improbable.

[–]incel_wifey[S] 9 ポイント10 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Actually, for him it is genetic. Did you see that I mentioned that he has Aspergers?

[–]CheesyFedoraWomen deserve to suffer. Death is not enough. 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

So basically "oh look this incel with Aspergers can get laid so you losers have no excise at all". Which is pretty much what I said. You make up stories so that you have even more excuses to shit on losers like us.

[–]NowListenCloselyBRbrazilian omega pokecel 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (1子コメント)

How you have dealed during the "act" that it was his first time? Or he kept it from you until after the first time?

[–]incel_wifey[S] 14 ポイント15 ポイント  (0子コメント)

He told me about 6 weeks after we started dating. That he had never kissed anyone or had sex. I was very surprised. I was the one who brought it up because we were hanging out more frequently but there was no physical affection.

So I basically had to initiate. It was weird for me. But I got over it.

[–]darockzilla25Embrace your inner Chad 6 ポイント7 ポイント  (3子コメント)

So he wasn't incel he was just a surfer brah who felt showers and shaving were too "mainstream"

[–]incel_wifey[S] 16 ポイント17 ポイント  (2子コメント)

I think that's an overly simplistic view.

[–]darockzilla25Embrace your inner Chad 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Perhaps, but it sounds like he just had to correct a few things, whereas most of us are broken.

[–]NJS331KingCope; Master of Personality and Confidence 2 ポイント3 ポイント  (7子コメント)

Are you post wall? Are you "settling down?" Is he a beta provider? Is he genetically ugly or no? I'm trying to get all the FAQ someone help me here!!!

[–]incel_wifey[S] 13 ポイント14 ポイント  (6子コメント)

Lol. No I wasn't post-wall. I was 24 in my prime. haha. I settled down with him because after getting to know him (and he stopped pushing me away), he was actually cool to be around.

He is not a beta provider. We are both engineers. Both make great salaries, and contribute to the household equally.

He is not genetically ugly. But I feel like he used to make himself "ugly" with the crazy hair and unkempt beard shaggy clothes, ratty shoes.

[–]kevin32 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

How do you look? Do you get compliments/hit on by other men?

[–]cahibou -2 ポイント-1 ポイント  (1子コメント)

He is not genetically ugly

That's more than could be said for most of us here. False hope is worse than no hope.

[–]lolcow009 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's not. Most of the posted selfies look 5-6/10, but other incel often say they're ugly. Many of you have extremely distorted views on looks.

[–]NJS331KingCope; Master of Personality and Confidence 4 ポイント5 ポイント  (1子コメント)

Okay thanks. I knew it.