I'm making a second post today, not trying to flood the sub but sharing my thoughts as they come up. I want to share an observation with you guys on how women pivot in social groups and use men as elevators.
I hang out with several social groups because I have a wide variety of interests. So for example here are three social groups I hang out with on occasion that are different from each other.
Group A: Musician types
Group B: Reguar Joes that go to bars
Group C: Business People
I remember a year or so ago, I was hanging out with Group A (The musician types). There was a woman dating a guy that I knew, she was into "band guys" obviously. Well they went splitsville eventually, and I lost contact with the band guys just because I stopped hanging out due to time restraints. Several months later that girl hit me up. I said whatever, and we started hooking up. She heard about me in that group as being "a succesful guy". I was the outlier in that group because all of them were broke.
Eventually I took her with me to hang out with Group C (Business people). Now in that group I am closer to the bottom of the barrel. Most of them were wealthier than me and smarter on some degrees. I could already see the clockwork spinning in her head as I introduced her to that group. Her and I broke up after a short time because she was a pain in the ass, and I never took her around my social groups again.
It was obvious to me what was happening. Not only do women do hypergamy on a man to man basis, but they do it on a group to group basis. So lets say you get the girl in a social group where you are the "king" so to speak. She will ride your back right into a "bigger opportunity" social group that you are sure to be a part of. She will then do the same, leave you for the "king" of that social group and ride his back into a even bigger social group. So on and so on. So by dating a woman from a lower social group and bringing her to a higher one, you are literally doing all the work for her hypergamy for her. Do not bring women into your social groups, especially ones that have more to offer than her prior ones.
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