I don't tend to go out much since i took a break from drinking. I never liked going out to bars and I've been extremely busy working on my studies and trying to develop my career. I realized that I was wasting my time going out and getting drunk and i wasn't 21 anymore so I'm putting that behind me. A year ago I started becoming MGTOW on my own before finding this subreddit and once i read a few posts here i knew what i was becoming.

So, last night my friends asked me to be the DD for them because they wanted to go out and i gladly agreed (at least they'll be getting around safe, so i don't mind at all). Me and my guy friends sit at the bar while two of their girlfriends dance and get attention from the guys there. My bluepill friend says that his girlfriend gets free drinks from guys and he doesn't care because he doesn't have to buy them. The entire time he watched where she was though because it was obvious he didn't trust her. I chose not to say anything.

While sitting at the bar telling old stories to each other and laughing these two girls with their entire faces caked with makeup came up next to me and out of the blue said, "I'm talking to my friend can you tell me when the bartender comes by?" and immediately turns her back to the bar and starts talking to her friend, completely assuming i would do this for her. She had complete disregard for what i was doing and didn't even try to be polite by saying "hello" or even "thank you". Very loudly i said "No." She swiveled back around to face me looking slightly irritated and asked why not. I told her "How about you pay attention, I'm busy here." I waited for her reaction because i knew it was going to be good. Her mouth actually hung open and her eyes got wide. She obviously had never been told no in her life. She didn't think for a second whether she should have any good manners when speaking to man or treat him with any respect. I'd like to tell myself i would have said no to her a few years ago but i tend to be a pretty nice guy so i probably wouldn't have. The only people i would do that for now are men who politely ask and have a good reason or for a close friend of mine. I credit you guys for making me stand up for myself.

Later on i took my friends back to one of their places where he was having some company over. I continued having a good night, it was obvious how drunk people were and it actually became comical to me. At one point my buddy and i were staring right at each other for a solid 5 minutes while his girlfriend was leaned right in his face telling a story that went nowhere and kept speaking on and on while one useless story slid into another. At that point i couldn't help but start laughing. She didn't even notice he wasn't looking at her or responding to anything but she went on and on. After she walked away i said "i thought she wasn't ever going to stop talking". Of course he just shrugs.

Then comes entitled bitch #2. She sits next to me and starts asking me how i've been doing and what i've been up to. I give her short answers and try not to be an asshole because i don't want to cause a scene or give her any information about how i've been doing. Who knows what she would do with that information. After coming back from the bathroom she is standing there in the hall. She grabs my hand and tries to get me to come into a bedroom down the hall. No words, just physically tries to pull me in there. I planted my feet and asked her what she was doing. She still doesn't say anything and just pulls harder. I had another laugh at how hard she was trying and how it was completely futile. It even got to the point where she looked like she was playing tug of war holding my arm and leaning way back thinking it would help. My feet never even moved from the spot and she still didn't have a chance. "c'monnn" she says. Again i have to tell a girl "No". Unlike the bitch from earlier in the night she doesn't let up. Trying to sweet talk me and saying how it would be fun. I tried to tell her that she's extremely drunk and i thought it was a bad idea. In the back of my mind i knew that if i had she could have easily called rape the morning after and i wouldn't be able to argue it because nobody believes a man anymore. Of course she takes a hit at my self esteem by calling me gay. I didn't respond to that and decided to use that old adage we've all heard before, "No means NO" Of course that's a phrase that only women are allowed to say because men don't get raped right? She actually laughed in my face and said "seriously?" and tugged more. After a huff and puff she walked back into the living room and immediately gathered some of her friends to hamster away what had happened in another room. Probably about how i don't deserve her and what a big strong independent woman she is.

I was baffled at how incredibly obvious women are at breaking their own rules. Apparently men can't say no to sex but bitches can call it rape if they initiate it and then they regret it the next morning. If you tell a woman what to do they call misogyny, but assume that you'll be at their beck and call anytime they like.

I'm glad MGTOW has taught me how to handle these situations. I choose not to be upset about and just find it hilarious how these children are running around with no idea how the world works. It's real satisfying to dump some cold water on them and wake them up once in a while.

Thanks MGTOW.