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[–]lonewolf-chicago 3 ポイント4 ポイント  (2子コメント)

Don't speak with them unless it is required. Don't engage in gossip. When hearing gossip, just say you are more into your job than drama (or something), be good at your job, smile, but don't engage in friendships with them or try to gain their friendship.

I have tried to befriend women - they always stab you in the back. I have tried to befriend manginas, they become whiteknights and talk shit about you to the women.

It is best to be just slightly anti-social, but always smile, say hello, good morning, and the like.

Can't tell you how many opportunities you will have to keep your mouth shut when you disengage. Find like minded people and be just a little bit more polite to them.

Smiling is key - without smiling you'll be seen as angry and not fitting in - with a smile, not engaging, not gossiping - you'll be seen as a professional.

[–]wildfireboat 1 ポイント2 ポイント  (0子コメント)

they always stab you in the back

Always.

[–]ihopeitsnormal 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

"More into your job than drama"

Don't even say something like that as they'll use it as a jumping off point and wreck you in that social game. Just become a black hole for gossip, never pass a judgment on a coworker you've heard something about - just say "okay" and end the conversation. Eventually they'll understand you're not interested in their little drama. Everything else here is key though.

[–]libradragon87 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Remain silent for your 90 days probation while becoming a top performer. Soon as it is up, anyone who crosses your boundaries or disrespects you, you make an example out of them, especially the hot princess women who thinks she can be a total cunt. To any potential reprisal from the company, you act completely indifferent and state that "you'll start looking for a new job." (even though you won't be) This prevents them from firing you even if they want to. Document, document, document. The more they attempt to do to you, the less you perform. Eventually collect employment insurance. Rinse and repeat. There's really not much you can do besides that in crappy office women politic environments.

[–]JStheHammer 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Never talk to anyone about non work things.

[–]enlightenedmgtow 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

What happens at work, stays at work. Talk about only work at work. That being said, don't be an asshole. That's how you get fired. I just be friendly but focus on my work. Keep people's thoughts about me neutral.

[–]raisins3142 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

Do not talk about your personal life. Do not ask them about their personal life or talk about it if they bring it up. Have canned phrases for when they ask about your personal life.

[–]Sol_Install 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's simple. Be polite. Don't take sides. Do not reveal your personal self. Meaning do not reveal that you have opposing views to the norm. Don't reveal any dirt on yourself. Nothing. Always make plans or at least lie about having plans.

You are there to work and get your paycheck. That's it. Don't bad mouth anyone. Wear the mask. If anyone asks about your "love life" or about kids, give none answers.

Non answers: "It's in God's hands." "I just haven't met the right one."