edit: everyone is saying I'm being judgy. How would YOU feel if you were talking to someone and they were just looking at memes during your conversation?? Do all your SOs just send you memes all day? That's what highschoolers do, I honestly can't even comprehend how no one sees an issue with this at all
Let me first say that I know this sounds so stupid and i seriously wish i weren't on reddit talking about this but I don't know who to talk to about this because I'd be embarrassed asking my friends or family about it.
Let me start by saying: My SO is a great partner, super caring and helpful, successful and ambitious-- all good things. I love him.
But he has this weird fascination with memes and while at first it was funny, it's honestly starting to put me off.
Sometimes, during the day when he's at work, I'll get a text from him with a screenshot of a meme he thinks is funny. And I'm kind of concerned because he's supposed to be working and he's sending me a meme? Or if we're hanging out at night and I'm talking to him, he'll respond but I'll notice that he's on instagram browsing one of those stupid meme accounts. I don't see why he can't just talk to me without also looking at memes. He'll also share memes on facebook sometimes which I think is kind of embarrassing for someone his age but I don't really say anything, I just ignore it and don't 'like' it. It's just sort of juvenile though, in my opinion.
I just feel like he could spend all that time he's using to look at memes doing something more productive like reading the news or doing a hobby or something?
He does other stuff like going on walks and biking a lot so it isn't like he sits at home all day browsing memes but when he IS at home, he's just always doing something AND looking at them. he doesn't even really laugh at them that much, he just sort of robotically goes through them and it's weird to me. I just don't understand. Memes are childish and stop being funny to me very quickly.
I've sort of brought it up to him but he seemed a little defensive and clearly didn't think it was a big deal, which sort of offended me. It's been a point of tension between us because neither one of us can let it go and we've actually argued about it frequently, which is so upsetting.
Is this normal for a 26-year-old guy in a relationship? Am I being too critical?
tl;dr: I think my SO spends too much time looking at memes and it's childish and driving me crazy. How do I bring it up to him?
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