Since semester started, a new female student has been attending classes scantily clad or wearing clothes that are too revealing, like a sport bra without shirt on top and booty shorts, semitransparent silk blouses without a bra, or even a bikini (this situation happened only once.) It isn't very frequent; she does this once or twice every month. Apart from wearing revealing clothes, she behaves as any other student. My university is located in a fairly liberal country and I'm not a prude. There is no written dress code for the students. During summer, crop tops and shorts are the norm. I myself come to university wearing sandals and shorts.

In a previous question, someone brought about an issue regarding a student wearing an offensive shirt, but the answers to that question doesn't apply here. First, what the student is doing isn’t illegal like wearing a racist slogan and she isn’t underage, either; second, in the linked question, the TA was a female who feared becoming a victim of aggression. In my case, I am the male and I fear that if I tell the student I am not comfortable with her clothing, she might consider it harassment. I don't feel harassed, either. She does this in plain view of other students, not only in my class, and not during office hours (like here)

This situation is disrupting the teaching environment - students start talking and leering instead of following the class. I have noticed that my students' level of attention and the class speed is significantly lowered when she comes wearing revealing clothes. I am starting to think it may cause issues outside the classroom, too. Recently, during my office hours, one student asked me my opinion on that situation, to which I replied that I had “no comments” (the student didn’t have the authority to ask me that and I am supposed to remain non-judgemental.) Then the student told me rumor has it I haven’t intervened because I enjoy watching the student expose herself. Probably you get here the subtlety of my situation: If I intervene, the student may consider I'm harassing her; if I don’t, I could become that perv TA who likes peering at his student.

The department’s head says that I can let the bikini pass once, but that he will intervene if it happens again. He cannot do anything regarding silk blouses or sport bras, though, but I’ll still feel uncomfortable if it doesn’t stop. (He will intervene only if the situation escalates, but I have authorization to intervene by myself to guarantee the class objectives are achieved.)

Am I overreacting? If I let things go on as normal, will my students eventually assume I don’t care? If I'd have to talk to the student, how is the best way to address the situation considering gender issues?

EDIT: It's true what StrongBad says, that the other students have their part in disrupting, but I'm certain that the student wearing revealing clothes also wants to elicit a reaction (whether it is disrupting the class, I don't know.) We are in winter now, so she comes fully clothed, changes her clothes once in the building and always (clothed or not) sits on the first row so everybody sees her. Outside classes, she is fully clothed. Her behavior is 100% intentional and she knows that when wearing that kind of clothes, the environment of the class will accordingly change.

UPDATE: I’m a bit surprised that none of the upvoted answers address any of my questions. Most of them are on the line of “do not be judgmental of the student and tell the other students to behave”, which is what I have done so far. My approach has been not to brought additional attention on her. If someone is giggling, I would call his attention in general terms, but I would never expose the student in front of her peers with a sentence like “Stop looking at her clothing and pay attention to me”. That would be harassment. It’s also true that the student has the right to wear whatever she wants, and that other students should behave, but human concentration has its limits and I cannot blame them for that. If a disruption is too constant and obvious, they will eventually fall. Stephan Kolassa made an analogy that I'll borrow here: “Everybody is within their rights not to shower. But if someone stinks so badly that other students cannot concentrate, I would say the instructor should attempt to change that one person's behavior - not expect that the entire rest of the class adapts their utterly normal reaction.” Pete L. Clark has also a good point when saying “the instructor can actually talk with the student and get her to understand why what she's doing is almost certainly not in her own best interest”. That would save the student some headaches in the future and allow me to appropriately teach my class. Furthermore, my department's head is well informed about the issue and has given me authorization to talk with the student. So now it's also within my responsibilities to take action. To avoid starting a bureaucratic storm, most classroom problems (I think almost every problem in an academic or business setting) are solved in a bottom-up fashion. First TA intervenes and if it doesn't work, you escalate to the next level.

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How (un)usual is dressing like that where you are? The way I remember secondary school it seemed rather common for girls to be half-naked any time of year, in particular in the first half of school (12-15 year olds). I'm sure they got stares from male teachers: that was the whole point (power). Perhaps you live in a country where secondary school pupils wear school uniforms such that this situation does not occur prior to university? I believe this information is relevant for the question, because the right response may depend on how unusual her behaviour is. – gerrit 23 hours ago
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It would be helpful to indicate your country or at least the culture you are in (is this in the North American or Western European context?) This would help some people answer your question since "appropriateness" is an entirely cultural construct and does not exist outside of such context. Also, the legal framework will be completely different. – Jennifer Rae Pierce 17 hours ago
    
As far as I can tell, none of the answers or comments seem to address what I see as the real problems here. 1) Why is this student's choice of attire disrupting the class? (Granted, it may be cultural, if you're in a place where things like ads featuring scantily-clad people, Playboy & online porn aren't readily available.) 2) Why can't you, the instructor, handle classroom disruption, WHATEVER the cause? – jamesqf 15 hours ago

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Unlike my answer here, your problem does not seem to be about the clothing, but rather the disruption. Assuming the student is not breaking the university dress code, then it is not her who is disrupting the teaching environment, but other students.

You have not provided examples of how the response of the other students is disrupting the teaching environment, but the solution really doesn't matter that the cause of the disruptive behavior is the appearance of another individual. Simply remind students that the disruptive behavior (talking, hooting, leering, taking photos) is disruptive and will not be tolerate. If the students continue to be disruptive, throw them out of class.

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Hmmmm, so throw out the majority, because the minority is pushing boundaries to elicit a response? That seems, a bit backwards. – NZKshatriya 5 hours ago
    
@NZKshatriya Not backwards at all. You have a group of students that seemingly can't control their hormones and behave like adults in front of another student exercising freedom to dress however one likes, as allowed by the Univ.'s dress code. The light-dressed student is paying attention to the class; some others are not. So you throw these ones out. And then your classroom is left with only open-minded people who are more interested in your lecture than in somebody else's transparent blouse. Win-win. PS: please use the chat for further comments. – walen 2 hours ago

The best thing you can do is the escalate the problem to your superiors, which you already did. Note that in disputes like this (when there is a bad and a worse choice, like you being accused of being either a harasser or a perv) the important thing is to let know your employer that there is a problem. That may be very important for your defense if you are forced to intervene if she starts to behave even more provocatively. So make sure that you have indisputable proof that you notified your superiors of a problem early.

Perhaps I would go even further. If you live in a liberal EU country, you may have dedicated university services taking care of sexual harassment, gender equality and similar. If you feel uncomfortable with her behavior, turn the tables on her, and go to the sexual harassment counselor and notify them. Gender equality goes both ways! If you (or your male students) would come into class in spandex swimming trunks, exposing the outline of your genitals, I believe the women in the audience would rightly feel this is inappropriate and constitutes harassment. So go to the counselor and report the situation. The counselor will have perhaps more knowledge how to tackle this or even she (it is probably a woman) will take the matter into her own hands.

As with your superiors, this may protect you if the girl starts acting even more unreasonably and you will have to intervene on short notice.

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I think the second paragraph outlines the optimal option. Not only notify the counsellor, but also ask them for a recommendation and follow that. Or even ask them to talk to her directly if they do recommend to take action (which I would not expect). Keep evidence of this communication. That way, if you are accused of inaction for being a “perv”¹, you can hide behind the back of the counsellor and show you followed their advice. (¹I see no perversion in an adult heterosexual male being distracted by a adult female wearing revealing clothing) – gerrit 23 hours ago
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The OP already went to the head of department who outlined conditions on which they would intervene. My read was that the OP was not feeling harassed (otherwise it is a duplicate to the linked question), but worried about the mm disruption. – StrongBad 22 hours ago
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@StrongBad Well, intervention by head is something, but the OP is in real difficulty if he has to intervene if the girl shows up again in the bikini and the situation escalates (teasing, harassment towards the girl). And merely defusing the situation in real time may put him in a very difficult position. Therefore, it should be clearly documented that he notified the appropriate authorities (person tasked with prevention of sexual harassment, if there is one) in time. Maybe they (the authority) will even invite a girl to a chat, for her own benefit. – xmp125a 20 hours ago
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There is no issue with telling students to stop harassing another student. As long as the students appearance is not harassing the other students (and a bikini falls into this category), you can always deal with it after the fact. While the authority might invite the student for a chat, in an ideal world they would invite the students who are being disruptive for the chat. – StrongBad 18 hours ago
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@StrongBad If a student wears a swimsuit to a classroom based lecture the instructor is well within their rights to question why they are doing it since it would cause a disruption to other students. – anonymous 16 hours ago

Probably you get here the subtlety of my situation: If I intervene, the student may consider I'm harassing her; if I don’t, I could become that perv TA who likes peering at his student.

In fact I don't get the subtlety of your situation. Attempting to impose limitations on a student about how they dress is indeed ramping up to a kind of harassment. If you agree that she has the right to wear the clothing she's wearing -- and I think you do -- then your attempts to interfere with this can only be more or less bad: you really don't have a leg to stand on. On the other hand, it is definitely okay to look at your students. You are not obligated to successfully pretend that a student wearing a bikini is actually wearing a business suit; rather, you are obligated to treat them fairly and professionally. You are not going to be convicted of the crime of looking at your student's body, because that is not a crime. Not only are you allowed to look, but liking what you see does not make you a "perv." So the horns of your dilemma are quite unequally sized.

By the way, it is not like dressing provocatively is an ingenious evil plan of your student's own innovation. People of both genders have been doing that, in different ways, for a long time. It is something that people can do and that deserves an appropriate response like other forms of behavior. I urge you to think about your response to the student's behavior and also the other students' responses to it. You can, and should, respond in a way that makes clear that the student's clothing is not going to interfere with your successful academic interaction with her or make you worry that you are yourself behaving improperly or "pervily." When you are confident enough about your own response, you will be implicitly modelling the correct behavior for the other students to follow. I think you have some room for improvement on that:

I am starting to think it may cause issues outside the classroom too. Recently, during my office hours, one student asked me my opinion on that situation, to which I replied that I had “no comments” (the student didn’t had the authority to ask me that and I am supposed to remain non-judgemental.) Then the student told me rumor has it I haven’t intervened because I enjoy watching the student expose herself.

Please look back over this. Do you see that you modeled your own lack of comfort with the situation to the other student? In particular, you let loose a whiff of fear that you are somehow behaving salaciously by not shutting down the student's behavior, and the student reflected that back upon you. When this happens again, you absolutely should be willing to talk to the student about the situation. You can say much of what I said above, and in particular you can talk about how the other students do not need to pretend that the student is fully dressed. They can even like the way she is dressed. [Added: I think that some are misinterpreting this. I don't mean that the OP should discuss the student's attractiveness with the other students, or encourage or participate in that discussion in any way. I'm just saying that if the OP or some of the other students find this student to be attractive then that is not inherently problematic or something that needs to be avoided. I said this because both the OP and some of his students seem to think that it is inherently problematic, or "perv"y.] But they can't let it interfere with the course or with their learning.

By the way, I want to point out the existence of a much more advanced level of instructor-student jujitsu in which the instructor can actually talk with the student and get her to understand why what she's doing is almost certainly not in her own best interest. But that's black belt stuff compared to where you are now: i.e., don't mess with it, someone could get hurt.

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-1. The student is well within her rights to dress provocatively, yes. But her attire is disrupting the learning environment. I think the instructor is well within his rights to ask about enforcing standards here. Here's an analogy: everybody is within their rights not to shower. But if someone stinks so badly that other students cannot concentrate, I would say the instructor should again attempt to change that one person's behavior - not expect that the entire rest of the class adapts their utterly normal reaction. – Stephan Kolassa yesterday
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I mostly agree with your answer, but I strongly object to Not only are you allowed to look, but liking what you see does not make you a "perv.". While it is certainly not criminal, it is in fact frowned upon to stare at other persons sexual body parts for an extended amount of time in almost any culture. I think most women will feel uncomfortable if you stare at their breasts for ten seconds and most guys will feel equally weird if you stare at their crotch for the same time. Not criminal, but certainly nothing a TA should do. – dirkk yesterday
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@dirkk: I didn't encourage the OP to stare at sexual body parts for an extended amount of time! Among other things, doing that would be disruptive to the classroom environment. I meant exactly what I said: enjoying someone else's physical appearance is not shameful and not a reaction that needs to be suppressed or hidden. In this case in particular, I suspect that the student is seeking some acknowledgment of that from the OP (wearing a bikini to his classroom alone). I think it's much more mature and functional to acknowledge the attraction and move on than to supress/ignore it. – Pete L. Clark 19 hours ago
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@PeteL.Clark Not only are you allowed to look, but liking what you see does not make you a "perv." While in general it may be more or less "okay" to look at and enjoy someone else's appearance and (un)dress, in this case it is completely unacceptable. OP is in a position of authority while this student is enrolled in any class OP teaches. It is absolutely inappropriate for him to interact with her in the way you suggest, and I think an argument could be made that speaking to other students about this one in the way you describe is advocating sexism and the objectification of women. – senschen 17 hours ago
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@senschen: I'm honestly not sure what kind of interaction you have in mind that would be "completely unacceptable." What I am saying is that the OP is very uncomfortable with the situation and thinks that it is not safe for him to look at the student, talk to other students about it, or even acknowledge that he notices the student is dressing one way rather than another. I am saying that he doesn't have to do that, and it is healthier and more work-appropriate not to pretend in this way. Looking at the clothes someone is wearing is not sexism or objectification, nor is talking about it. – Pete L. Clark 17 hours ago

Ignore everyone here and ask your higher-ups what to do. Then do it.

And get at least some of the responses in writing so that you can point back to them.

I believe this is the only correct and safe way to proceed. End of story.

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I'd add that you might even ask them to intervene directly. – Mayou36 yesterday
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@Mayou36: I agree except in the question the OP states he's already done that. I'm just baffled why he doesn't seem to have asked what he should do. – Mehrdad yesterday
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Many existing answers recommend to refer up the chain of command. That big statement at the top of your post seem unwarranted. – Cape Code 22 hours ago
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This is a correct answer to many questions on academia.se. :-) – Dan Romik 18 hours ago
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@CapeCode well, technically his advice to "ignore everyone here" will also apply to his own answer, so it is not logically consistent when interpreted literally. But if you turn off your math/exact sciences brain and stop interpreting things completely literally (it's hard, I know...), that big statement at the top does make some sense IMO. – Dan Romik 18 hours ago

I think that it is useful to view your dilemma from a worst-case scenario perspective.

Trying to intervene and the student then complaining about harassment/freedom of expression/etc., may (conceivably) lead to adverse professional consequences for you. For example, she might make a formal complaint with the risk that you are not employed again as a TA.

On the other hand, not intervening leaves you open to the somewhat indirect accusation that you didn't do something because you enjoyed her dressing as she does. I too would hate to think such a view was incorrectly held about me, but it is hard to see how much can come of it. Particularly, because one can easily imagine that your head of department, etc., will have no difficulty in understanding why you didn't intervene.

There are, of course, consequences for your students too, but as @StrongBad suggests they are responsible for their leering, not you. If they genuinely feel strongly about her dress, as opposed to it being a source of entertainment, and they can articulate a good reason why they do, then they can complain to someone up the hierarchy who may be in a more secure position from which to intervene. You might even consider subtly encouraging them in this direction.

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There is a worse possible scenario if the OP doesn't intervene: the student could file a formal complaint stating that she feels harassed (for example) because he (allegedly) stares at her breasts during class. Probably still not worse than scenario 1, of course. – T. Verron 23 hours ago

Meet the problem head on. Take a couple of minutes to talk about it. Remind your students that in this country (whatever country that is), students have the right to dress as they please, and if anyone has a problem with that, it's their problem, not the person with an unusual outfit's problem.

The most important thing is to convey a firm commitment to individual liberties and gender equality, and your expectation that everyone in the class behave in a supportive way to all their fellow students.

If you want to include some gentle humor to break the tension, that would be okay. For example, in my case, I might share a memory of Professor R. who expressed his individuality by wearing a suit and tie, on teaching days and office days, alike: three-piece, dark wool generally, but with a switch to light blue seersucker on Memorial Day. That was just his style. To each his own, and who am I to tell anyone else how to dress?

Or you could mention that if Imelda Marcos paid her tuition and met the prerequisites, she would be welcome in your class, along with her entire collection of shoes. (1220 pairs!)

(Ignore the rumors. There will always be silly rumors about instructors.)

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@Inquisitive A company can impose a dress code as a condition of employment, but OP's student isn't an employee. – aparente001 yesterday
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@Inquisitive: Not all moral standards or ethics are enforced by law. "It's not against the law" can be a really bad excuse for misbehavior. (Thing about finance industry...). – user6522399 yesterday
    
Rights and responsibilities are different things and one does not make a person immune to the other in this context at least. – DoritoStyle 12 hours ago
    
@user6522399 - What's the bad behavior here? – aparente001 2 hours ago
    
@DoritoStyle - What are the responsibilities here? – aparente001 2 hours ago

You say that you've talked to your department head about this; make sure you get the answers in writing to protect yourself. A student who changes into a bikini once she enters the building is a very different situation than a student who wears normal but revealing street clothes to class - make sure this information is included in your letter to your department head.

As you are aware, there is a fine line in enforcing dress codes -- nearly all school dress codes focus on limiting the freedom of female students to protect male students from distraction. Your bikini-wearer is deliberately pushing the boundaries. (I can't imagine that swimwear is allowed in class -- perhaps the situation has never come up before?)

If your male students ask privately, simply say that you're unfortunately not legally allowed to intervene. You may want to suggest to the most distractible students that they sit in the front rows to avoid having the bikini in their line of sight.

Does this student wear revealing clothes to other classes, or just yours?

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She has worn revealing clothes to other classes, but the bikini incident only happened to me and so far I am the only TA who has complained to the deparment's head. She sits in the front row. – je_b yesterday
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Do cover yourself by going to HR and asking for advice in writing. She may be planning to try and get better grades by blackmailing you, or something equally nefarious. And whatever you do, never be alone with her. If she insists on visiting you in your office, leave the door wide open. Try and have a colleague with you. – RedSonja 20 hours ago

The situation is indeed delicate and I can see why you want to be cautious. Whatever action you take could either result in people responding reasonably or in a shitstorm of biblical proportions.

I think a classroom is equivalent to a professional environment where a certain type of behavior favoring work and learning is socially expected. This applies to both men and women, obviously. But you being a male, her being female you can't possibly make a comment without giving the flank to a political reaction.

The rumors about you are annoying of course, but they are much safer to live with. In short, at the individual level, you only have one safe alternative.

What you could do is lobby to have the school create a simple dress code to prevent future similar cases.

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I'm somewhat surprised this hasn't been stated yet.

Wearing a bikini to class is inappropriate.

Period.

Just as wearing shorts, sandals and nothing else would be inappropriate. The classroom is not the place for swimwear.

This should have nothing to do with sexism, or with harassment (though I certainly understand why you're worried about that). It has nothing to do with "the students are at fault for noticing". It has nothing to do with "but men could do it" (no, they couldn't). It is not a case of "it's the mens' fault for suggesting that she was asking for it" (ridiculous).

Wearing bikinis, or transparent tops, or just bras is so obviously not okay. If I were in that position, I would feel quite within my rights to invite the student to my office and explain that she is in a semi-professional environment and is expected to dress accordingly. Besides everything else, she should be showing a little decorum and a little respect for you, the teacher. If she feels that's "harassment" then, frankly, bring it on. I can't imagine you'd lose that fight.

Whether that's something that works for you, in your culture, at your institution, in terms of the risk of fallout, I cannot possibly say.

But think of it this way: what would happen to her if she wore that to work?

Go from there.

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Maybe you missed this in the OP's question: "The department’s head says that I can let the bikini pass once, but that he will intervene if it happens again. He cannot do anything regarding silk blouses or sport bras, though, but I’ll still feel uncomfortable if it doesn’t stop." So yes: the department head regards the bikini as inappropriate classroom attire [I would certainly agree] but is not willing to say the same about some of the other clothing the student is wearing... – Pete L. Clark 8 hours ago
    
...The OP was very wise to talk to the head about this, as now he has full support to act if the extreme case recurs. He does not have similar support for the other clothing, and it would be much less wise for him to impose his own, stronger standards of classroom attire. That's where the harassment could start. Also the classroom is not the same as the workplace. As a veteran instructor I can tell you that a wide range of behavior is acceptable among students that is not acceptable among employees. One can encourage professionalism among students, but not (necessarily) demand it. – Pete L. Clark 8 hours ago
    
@PeteL.Clark: Then the OP should either talk to the student on their own authority. If they're uncomfortable doing that, because they feel they must abide by the head's decision, then that's what they'll have to do. Or go somewhere else. – Lightness Races in Orbit 1 hour ago

Generally in professional environments, there is either an implicit or explicit prohibition on men commenting on how women are dressed. You are encountering that in the answers you are getting. That being said, this update to the question caught my eye:

We are in winter now, so she comes fully clothed, changes her clothes once in the building and always (clothed or not) sits on the first row so everybody sees her. Outside classes, she is fully clothed. Her behavior is 100% intentional and she knows that when wearing that kind of clothes the environment of the class will accordingly change.

To me this implies that the student is explicitly behaving the way she is in order to elicit response, either from you or the other students in the class. The fact that you mention a student asking about the situation implies that other students are noticing the disruption from the classroom norms.

Unfortunately as Pete L. Clark mentions, directly counseling the student on the fact that their behavior is against their own best interests even if it is explicitly permissible is very difficult to do without a lot of practice. I would advise you bring the situation up with the department chair and relevant university authorities to guard against an potential complaints against you. Additionally, you may want to reach out to your colleagues to see if one of them can approach the student to see if they can find some insight into why the student is choosing to dress in such a matter.

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Lots of people wear one thing on their way to work and change when they get there. Further, there are lots of reasons to sit in the front row. Seems a bit extreme to conclude the student is attempting to elicit a response. – StrongBad 18 hours ago
    
@StrongBad: "illicit a response" is an amusing typo that both you and anonymous have now made. – Pete L. Clark 18 hours ago
    
@PeteL.Clark in my defense, I copy and pasted the original sentence into my comment and then edited. When I saw your edit, I decided I better fix it in my comment too. – StrongBad 18 hours ago
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"Additionally, you may want to reach out to your colleagues to see if one of them can approach the student to see if they can find some insight into why the student is choosing to dress in such a matter." +1. Maybe the best single suggestion I've seen across many answers. – Pete L. Clark 18 hours ago
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@StrongBad Based upon what the OP wrote and I quoted I'm assuming that the student is dressing in an atypical matter when attending class. If the student is only wearing reveling clothing in the classroom and not, say, when at lunch on campus between classes, it would imply that they are doing things on purpose. Note that I didn't say anything where the student was sitting, it's just a block quote. – anonymous 18 hours ago

"The school doesn't have a dress code, we simply expect students to conduct themselves professionally. Unfortunately it appears that you come to class occasionally dressed in a manner which distracts attention from the lesson to you. I've discussed this disruption with my superiors at length. We don't want to infringe on your personal expression. We also don't want the other students to be distracted. We don't believe the distraction is intentional, and perhaps you're surprised to learn of it now. Regardless, we have to come up with a solution that is reasonable and fair for everyone."

From there the discussion will depend on what she says. I doubt you'll need to prompt her to contribute her perspective, but if you do you might ask whether she needs help understanding the cultural norms of those attending the class, or simply ask her what her thoughts are.

If she becomes defensive, it sounds like the university doesn't provide you with much support in this case. It might be best to simply say, "I understand you aren't breaking any rules, and I cannot ask you to change your behavior. I"m hoping you understand the issue, and I will continue discussions with school officials to find a solution."

If she is amenable to change you might consider solutions such as sitting in the back of the class. If she wants to help but simply doesn't understand what outfits are distracting you might be able to come up with a word or action (putting a pencil on a specific spot on the table or lectern in front of you, for instance) that would encourage her to move seats if she actually is causing a disturbance.

Without specific knowledge of the university's policies, though, there's little else that can be recommended.

Having the discussion and understanding whether she understands the situation and is interested in changing is probably the key to the type of discussion you're hoping to have.

I'd strongly avoid mentioning specific outfits, or trying to draw lines between appropriate and inappropriate. Always keep the discussion away from boundaries and focus on the fact that it's disruptive to the class. You should be prepared to explain what the class does in response to her outfits that demonstrates the disruption.

If the situation doesn't improve, and you can't simply wait out the semester, discuss further options with your superiors. You should be able to take some actions for the benefit of your class at your discretion, for instance having assigned seating throughout the class.

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Again, nothing interesting happens in classes I attend

Now, I am pretty sure she is somehow violating the student code of conduct. Give that a thorough read.

Also, I am pretty sure that blatant disrespect of the instructor would be grounds for removal from a class at any place of higher learning, so create a dress code for your class, something simple like "no see thru clothing, no swimwear," etc, and email it to your students. If the behavior continues, drop the student.

Heck you could even add to your syllabus that "This is a college course, not a hangout spot, dress accordingly."

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So you think that you can prohibit student behavior just by creating a course policy and sending it to the students? May I ask about your experience in doing this? – Pete L. Clark yesterday
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"No revealing clothing", what would that include or exclude? It seems very subjective, and it will feel unfair. – ANeves yesterday
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The problem with dress codes like "no revealing clothing" is that they are inherently subjective. They are also nearly always used solely to restrict the clothing choices of female students, which is more than a bit unfair. (And remember that women have a lifetime of being judged by their clothing choices.) – arp yesterday
    
@PeteL.Clark No experience, it was just a suggestion. And to those upset with the whole dress codes and women being judged by their clothing choices, get over yourselves. This is a situation where the choice of clothing or lack thereof is creating a situation in which others who are going to a class to learn, are having their ability to learn impacted. Now, whether or not this is due to the other students inability to ignore said student is another matter. If someone of any gender pushes things too far, there needs to be some sort of response, – NZKshatriya 20 hours ago
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@ANeves and arp, edited to be a bit more specific – NZKshatriya 20 hours ago

Am I overreacting? If I leave things go on as normal, will my students eventually assume I don’t care? If I have to talk to the student, how is the best way to address the situation considering gender issues?

Answer #1) Yes. You are overreacting. As long is she's not breaking any school rules or the law, she is free to do what she wants to do in a free country. You may not like it, but that's the nature of a free country.

Answer #2) Your students will think thoughts as they so choose because we live in a free country.

Answer #3) DO NOT talk to the student. Talk to your boss who has already said that help will be on the way in a certain circumstance. Don't be foolish. You could get into a hell of a legal bind if you act outside of the rules and/or the law.

Three thoughts occurred to me. Is it possible she's a stripper? Is it possible she's conducting an experiment for which she might have approval? Is she possibly mentally ill?

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I cannot imagine an IRB approving a study in which a reasonable outcome is the disruption of a class. – StrongBad yesterday
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@Inquisitive I don't think she has a mental illness: her personality is a bit "plain" or shy, but there are plenty of students like that (including me, I think.) I hardly see a correlation between being a stripper and going scantly clad to class, each context is different. I haven't ruled out this is a "performance"..., but I don't have proofs it is either. – je_b yesterday
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@je_b If she's a stripper, she might not change before coming to class. Also, if she's working a later shift at a club, she might change before class so that she can leave quickly after class. Just a possibility. It may not be probable. – Inquisitive yesterday
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@Inquisitive Read the edit I added to the question. She deliberately undresses for class and not the other way around. – je_b yesterday
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A woman chooses to wear clothing to a class that other people deem inappropriate, and maybe she's mentally ill? That's a pretty offensive assumption. – Greg Martin yesterday

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