Dear brothers,

Lately, I have been seeing on this subreddit that men think about "You can maybe get laid when you do women a favour."

Let me be straight here. When you are doing women a favour for a chance to get laid it's really not worth the effort.

If you would spend that time and money on a hooker your "maybe" chance would become a "guarantee" chance.

No wonder that in different countries they want to ban prostitutes. It's so men are willing to do favours for women for a chance to get laid. And to marry a woman so you can become a lifetime slave to the state and the woman.

Next time you do women a favour do the math. Always ask something in return for the service you will provide. If you know that person really well you can be generous. But doing it for a chance to get laid is not worth it.

To give an example. A girl will ask you after she is done with clubbing if you can give her a lift with your car to her home.

A man operating on his lizard brain will think

"Hey if I bring her home I can maybe get laid, Totally worth it. I am bringing her home after all teehee".

If a man uses reason and logic he will think

hmm I have to drive to her club which will cost me money and time.

I have to wear my clothes and go outside in the cold and above that, I have to drive a car back and forth for nothing in return?

The woman asking me for the service didn't even ask me to hang out with her and she wants a free ride?

I definitely wouldn't do this for a man in this situation unless it's a buddy I know.

A BP men in this situation would think that he has a chance to get laid in this situation. Nope, I'm not putting in that effort.

For the price and time, I will have to spend on her to get laid can be spent on a prostitute and my odd becomes 100%.

Yup not worth it give me something in return or ask another man who would gladly do that job for ya(for a "chance" to get laid). I will enjoy doing things with myself instead.

Another example: Let's take the white knight. He is white knighting so that he thinks that the woman will think

he has helped me I really like him now

When you operate on your lizard brain this shit will happen.

Sometimes when you are doing something for women you have to think would I do the same thing if it was a man? Is it worth sacrificing what I am about to sacrifice? If the answer is no move on or ask something in return.

Your time is more valuable than anything on this planet. Your time is limited. Spend it on people who deserve it and don't let people use you. It's totally worth spending time on yourself.