Have you noticed (as I have) that women are not only just selfish over material things but also selfish about how they define/ understand some commonly used words as: good, gentle, kind, irresponsible, idiot, etc? That is, they choose to understand these words based on their whims and would change (with a lightspeed) their intuitive understanding of them when they cunningly sense their originally-held belief has been challenged or things are rigged against them.

I stayed many times with different women and learnt a lot about how they think and react in different situations. I tell you, they were all basically the same in their manners, nature and behaviours—except they were tactically sly in their own unique ways and purposes. I noticed this, that a woman would only refer to one as "good" only when that person is submissive and obedient to their whims. It doesn't matter how terrible this same person is towards others (they don't care about that—because it's ALL about them) but so far as they always do as this woman pleases, it is accorded to them as being "objectively good." For example, say, I'm cruel to others yet always doing the bidding of, say, my mom, female friend, etc. she'd say I'm actually good, and would say this to others about me even if she's confronted with clear facts of my inhumane attitudes towards others; she will defend my "integrity" simply because I was always making her feel good by doing and offering what she wants. If something happens one day so that I'm unable to satisfy her demand, wish...she'd then switch/ change her definition of "good" and now say "so all they said about you were true, you're an ***hole, irresponsible, worthless, ...". They can sometimes too be collective about this, especially when all these women you've been ever "good" to, know each other. They'd discuss about you and praise you whenever they meet.

Speaking of the stereotypical "nice/ gentle guy", which is one of the common terms women use to refer to guys of "great" personalities and chivalric manners, it's again here a selfish definition—it reeks of a gynocentric meaning. They (women) say these guys are gentle because they cater to ONLY women's (collectively speaking) needs, wants, wishes, whims... They do not care how these "nice/ gentle" guys treat others—their fellow men, for example; they only care that he always pays for their dinner; that he always defends them even if they are wrong; that he always lends a shoulder for them to cry on; that he allows himself to be used as an outlet for their emotional and social exasperation.

Women will ONLY deem you as a "kind/ sweet" person only when you ALWAYS give them money and gifts—they'll disregard that you're horrible to others. Even if she witnesses you terribly abuse someone, she'll later on still refer to you as the most "humane" and "gentle" person she's never seen and met before. If you however one day fail her, you're the most stupid, irresponsible, sexist, misogynistic, and indifferent person who doesn't deserve to be called an "earth citizen."

Be careful with the "sweet" talks of women; do not take their words seriously.

TL; DR: women are too selfish about everything that even they're selective and selfish about the semantics of words.