Many of the guys on here are still well in the anger phase of the red pill. They realize how stacked against them the game is and it’s is incredible frustrating. Especially the younger guys in the grips of the intense biological instinct to breed. The sooner you get past that phase, the sooner your hormones die down and you can look at hypergamy objectively, the happier your will be.
We talk on here about AWALT. All Women are Like This. At first I thought it was straightforward, all women are selfish and manipulative, looking to use men for their own comfort and swing to another branch whenever they feel like it. While that is a good way of looking at things if you are looking to protect yourself, it isn’t the whole story. AWALT is better described as all women have the same nature, the same instincts, however, some of them are better at making good choices than others. While women certainly aren’t the goddesses society teaches us to put on pedestals and never have naughty thoughts about, neither are they all gold digging whores. AWALT is telling us rather that they all have the potential to be whores.
And here is why feminism is absolute fucking cancer for women as well as men.
First, a pro tip. If you find yourself in a position where you are being attacked for being a man or accused of being sexist or even in a rational discussion about feminism (lol impossible I know) the best way to control the argument is to separate feminism from women’s rights. Feminism is an ideology with a specific set of rules and principles, whereas women’s rights are human rights, life, liberty, etc. We are fine with the one, but not the other.
While I know some of my brothers here would like them back in the kitchen with no vote and no shoes, and as sweet as that sounds, it’s not equality. It’s the feminists that want inequality, not us. All we want is the freedom to go our own way.
The problem with feminism is the removal of choice from a woman’s life, and why it’s so insidious is because it comes in the sheepskin of giving a woman more choices.
It’s always good to put yourself in your antagonist’s shoes. Again, getting past the anger phase is critical for a healthy and fulfilling life as a MGTOW, and understanding that women are as much victims of the feminist agenda as men is helpful in this process. Granted, women brought it one themselves by demanding societal change without thought for the consequences themselves, but a person is responsible for their own actions, not the actions of the others and not the actions of the mob unless they willing join that mob.
There is a car commercial for a car marketed towards women, and in it shows an attractive but not too attractive beige skinned women walking through all these doors, and each time she goes through a door she is in a different outfit. She is in her business suite, she is in her workout clothes with a latte, she is in her evening dress, and she is in her soccer mom trip-to-whole-foods outfit. The point is the Toyota Vaginamobile is everything a strong confident woman needs for her busy life.
And this is the brainwashing that these creatures governed by emotion rather than logic are force feed.
In order to be a strong, fulfilled modern women you have to be all these things. You have to be a wife and a mother, but also a successful career women. You have to go to hot yoga and whole foods, but also host cocktail parties. And most importantly, while you do this, you have to stay young and beautiful and stress free. It’s an impossible standard and it’s no wonder it drives women crazy.
Feminism insists on this. The state doesn’t care about health or happiness, all it wants is more bodies to work the salt mines. It comes as no surprise that the rise of feminism in the 60s and 70s coincided with the end of the single income home in the same period.
Many of us, men and women, are not happy because society never pulls out a chair for us and lets us slide comfortably into a role. While it’s nice to have options as to how best live our lives and not be forced into a miserable existence we aren’t suited for, how many of us would benefit from being guided into a role that suited us? For example, the blue collar worker of the 60s and 70s wanted a better life for his kids so he pushed them to get a college degree. The result? A generation of over qualified retail employees laden with debt and a massive shortage of blue collar workers needed for good paying trade jobs.
The same is true for women. I have met so many women in the workforce who would have been much happier in a role as a housewife. But feminism drove them out of the home and into the workforce at the expense of their happiness as well as that of their families.
It also cost many of us wives, because this impossible ideal of the modern woman on the go of course wouldn’t ever settle for anything but an impossible ideal of a man. That’s why so many of them cheat on their beta provider with a hung scumbag. They want the danger of a bad boy but the bank account of a CPA.
Ultimately, feminism has cost women their choice and their happiness. If a women wants to work and have a career, by all means. If she wants to settle down and have a family, that’s fine too. If she wants to do both, best of luck, you are welcome to try, but doing both and expecting to be this beautiful activated stress free forever young goddess like the woman in the car commercial and you are going to drive yourself and all the men in your life utterly insane.
TL,DR Feminism robs choice from women under the pretense of providing choice.
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