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How to handle sexual desire? (self.MGTOW)

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Hi MGTOW, Im a 21 year old virgin. Im currently struggling with masturbation, I masturbate 1-3 times a day and I can't control it, sometimes when Im reading/watching something my mind wanders to sex always. I understand your drive in life comes from your bodies desire to breed, (pretty sure) if you had no dick then you wouldn't even feel like getting up.

Well everytime a masturbate I lose all motivation and feel sluggish, how do you transmute sexual desire into hard work and effort? I feel as if my sexual organs are primitive but my mind is in the modern world. At the moment Im focusing all efforts on becoming a good programmer, I feel as if Im years behind everybody in life, and, well quite frankly Ive been a loser my whole life. Now is time to put the foot to the gas and make a change to the best I can. Everything related to masturbation is becoming a massive procrastination fest and time waste in my life. If I was to somehow get laid, would the itching desire my organs have to get laid subside for a year or so? Would I not be such a thirsty fuck? Is it possible to meditate away this shit, I dont even know how to do that but am willing to read any relevant material. Is it down to simply one thing; discipline? It seems like an overwhelming force in my life which I can't shake. Please help me, I want to remove this vice.

Thank you.

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[–]just8lmao 0 ポイント1 ポイント  (0子コメント)

I can't control it

Unless you've lost cognitive control of your hands I would say you're full of shit. Of course this must be a very ingrained habit of yours if you're saying that.

Bur habits are not unbreakable. Meditation and breaking attachment to pleasure can help you along. Often times the problem is not masturbation but is porn. Setup a parental blocker on your browser. Get someone to make a password for you and leave it alone. Develop constructive hobbies to occupy your time.

At the minimum give it a few days and you'll notice a big change in your mindset. Idk about you but when I would overdo it I felt absolutely like shit, which is probably due to the dopamine insensitivity from using the receptors so much coupled with the hormonal disruption.

Learn that pain/discomfort is a good thing. It goes against the cult of instant gratification we live in. We are too coddled in the modern world. Even as men.